Fiqh of Marriage

Sir, my unmarried friend says she thinks she may have broken her hymen due to the secret habit which she developed after an abuse in childhood.Her parents are seeking proposals for her,what is the ruling on concealment of this matter and how to avoid bad consequences? Should the to-husband be informed? How to deal with this matter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Masturbation

14 Jul

ANSWER: Bleeding before the marriage is normal. Most women break their hymen due to playing sports or riding bicycles etc. Other girls don’t break the hymen from the first few attempts. She must repent for the bad habits she had. She must not bring this up and never mention it to anyone or be concerned about it.

In my country a system of dowry prevails where bride’s family has to give groom furniture,bedding,electrical appliances,utensils,crockery and other household items.But when it comes to mahr an amount is fixed verbally which is never given in reality.If a girl wants mahr then also it is not given.It is given only in case of divorce.So will the marriage be valid without mahr?

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage

13 Jul

ANSWER: The marriage is valid, however the man is sinful for not paying off the mahr and he is also sinful for accepting a dowry like Hindus! Men must fear Allah’s punishment and should be ashamed of themselves for being like this!

Can brother marries off her sister without the consent of father?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

11 Jul

ANSWER: No, such a marriage is void as the father can’t be bypassed like this without a legitimate reason.

If a person committed zina, should he/she marry that person itself after repenting it and completely stoping the haram relationship? . Bcos both person can marry if they wish for, both are young and unmarried.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Jul

ANSWER: One must marry a person who fears Allah and is practicing. Such a person who had the tendency to fornicate can do it again unless he/she repented for real and became a true practicing Muslim.

Can I get married to the girl I love but parents are not agreeing because we are still very young?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

08 Jul

ANSWER: If the boy is financially independent, as a man, he must propose to the Girl’s father for her and if he agrees, he can get married to her. He does not need anyone’s permission to get married except the girl’s guardian. If you are serious about marriage, approach her father for her hand in […]

My husband is non practicing Muslim, he doesn’t pray at all.He doesn’t provide for me as well.do I have to obey him if he asks for intimacy?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

07 Jul

ANSWER: No! You don’t have to obey him and if he doesn’t pray at all, it is not permissible for you to stay married to him!

If i know a sister/brother who involved zina in the past, i don’t knw weather they are repented or not. if someone in my relations or friends proposing them to them, is it permissible to speak about their past sins ?

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Jul

ANSWER: You do not know if they repented from it or not. It is not permissible to disclose the past Sins of others. If you know that they are not fit for marriage, just say that you believe that they are not suitable for marriage without mentioning the reason.

Sir my parents said they will gift a gold ring as dowry to my groom,here in india dowry is must and i denied that coz gold is haram on men,a man wearing gold on wedding is more worse for me ,i denied, my mom said me dnt bring saudi law here its india,and saying m disobedient child, am i? For saying No to haram? does it make me a bad child? My mom also tortured me for saying no, i follow Allahs law

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Jun

ANSWER: No you are not sinful and you are not disobedient. What you said was right. Handle this matter with respect and diplomatically try to resolve this matter by giving them some other option of gifting to your groom which will benefit both of you in future. If your husband to be is a practicing […]

Sheikh can a divorced muslim women get married again without the consent of her father if he only keeps giving excuses after excuses.

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

22 Jun

ANSWER: If your father rejects MANY good proposals without any justifiable reason, you can approach the muslim Qadi and he will look into your case and decide. But if he only rejected this particular suitor, you can’t marry him without his consent as this is his right in Islam and you must obey him.

If a woman is beautiful and righteous is that enough for a marriage to be successful or is there anything else which is important to look for?

Fiqh of Marriage

08 Jun

ANSWER: This is usually enough but may need to check whether she has anger or temper issues as this is a very bad thing for a spouse to have.

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