Fiqh of Marriage

Is it permissible in Islam to do nikah in case boy is in Saudi Arabia and girl in India. Can we do the nikah in that case if boy is not present but he is willing or is it necessary for both to be present?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Feb

ANSWER: Technically speaking, if all parties including the witnesses know each other beyond doubt and no one can impersonate one of them, this is permissible though I don’t advise of it as I have seen so many similar marriages where the woman has been running after her husband to divorce her and he is refusing […]

My question is if a man has Anal Sex with wife does that mean the marriage is broken and she’s divorced!!

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

30 Jan

ANSWER: This is a major sin and whoever does this is cursed by Allah but the marriage is not void by this filthy sin.

Can a Muslim girl after marriage keep her family and add family name of her husband to her family name? Example Girls name: Amina Ahmed Boys name: Ali Siddiqui Can she change her name to, Amina Ahmed Siddiqui?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

28 Jan

ANSWER: No, she must not change her name after marriage.This is something that the Muslims picked from the Non Muslims. A woman would change her Surname into her husband’s name! THIS IS NOT PERMISSIBLE. This is imitating the Kuffar and taking out the father’s name and putting the husband’s name in it’s place is a […]

Alhamdulillah Allah has blessed us with 3 children mashaAllah. MashaAllah we have space and can afford to have more children but my husband has said no. I do 90% of the parenting but still he thinks it will be too tiring to have more kids. He never mentioned this before we started a family. I feel utterly heartbroken, do you have any advice sheikh.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pedagogy education and upbringing

27 Jan

ANSWER: Giving a gap between children is permissible, however permanently stopping to have kids is not permissible. Try to speak to him couple of years from now.

If we have brother and sisters who we KNOW they dont pray OUT OF LAZINESS. Is it fard upon us to boycott them? Or can we still hang out with them and talk. Sadly MANY peoplr around us from freinds and family dont pray. They would never drink alcohol or zina etc because its haraam but everyone seems sooooo leniet when it comes to prayer.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of Marriage

27 Jan

ANSWER: Don’t cut them off and keep on praying in front of them and inviting them to join and giving them gentle reminders every now and then.

Is there any authentic Hadees discouraging marriage between 1st cousins over generation after generation. (eg : my parents are cousins to each other, my self and my offspring also continuing same.)

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Jan

ANSWER: No, there’s no prohibition or discouragement in this. This is something permissible.

My hubby finds a few of my dad’s habits offensive, which my dad doesn’t do intentionally, it’s only his nature. Now my hubby asks me to tell my dad not to do so and so and sometimes me and my hubby gets in to a big fight because of them. My dad not aware of this at all. Please suggest me, should i tell this to my dad or should i keep it myself, knowing that this will irritate my hubby furthermore

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Jan

ANSWER: Your husband has no right dictating about your dad’s habits. If he doesn’t like something, he shouldn’t meet him rather than asking him to change for him. Your husband is not obliged to maintain ties with your father. Therefore, ask him not to meet your father.

Im newly married,his mom tortured me in 1st mnth n his sisters got separated us,takes care of his mom.i live alone,in a 1bedroom house where i feel suffocated,my husband goes 40kms away to office,even if im sick theres nobody to take care,can i ask him to move near his office where he can visit in emergencies? Or am i sinning?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

06 Jan

ANSWER: If you mean you live alone and your husband lives with his mother, this is absolutely wrong. You must live with him. You’re not sinning at all as having a separate accommodation with your husband is your right.

If a girl’s father completely refuses a man for his daughter because he is not of the same “financial status”, can the girl’s brother or uncle automatically become her wali? or what is the procedure

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Jan

ANSWER: Her father must be her Wali and she can’t choose another Wali other than him. It is the father’s right to refuse whoever he believes is not suitable for his daughter. If your father is against you marrying anyone permanently, in this case, you can go to the Muslim court or the authorized Islamic center and they will appoint another guardian for you.

What is the ruling on speaking on the phone with the opposite gender for the sake of getting to know each other for marriage. Note, this will be within limits and not going beyond the scope of getting to know each other (likes, dislikes, personality) . Note, she lives in another state and she would like to speak on the phone to get to know each other more.

Fiqh of Marriage

24 Dec

ANSWER: This is not permissible. You can only speak with her in the first meeting, in the presence of her wali when you go to see her.

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