Pre-Marital Relations

QUESTION: Isit kufr if I get angry at my sist whn she dusn leme meet my male frnd saying its haram,while she dated many n still dus?m nt angry at Allah’s rules.m angry cz she uses Islamic rules jst as a chnc2 control me n keepne inside house n dusn really mean fr Allah’s sake

Fiqh of the family, Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

15 Oct

ANSWER: This is not kufr but both of you are in great danger as both of you are angering Allah and committing sins on daily basis! Allah is not letting you do these sins because He is pleased with you, rather He is setting you up for a great and huge disaster in your lives […]

QUESTION: I was friend with a girl. It was purely platonic. Recently i found out that she has been committing zina with someone. When i confronted her about it she got angry with me We’re no longer friends because of that. Now my question is sheikh, And i feel like i have to stop her and the only way i can do it is by telling about it to her family. I have the proof of our chat. Should i do it?

Character and Morals, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Sep

ANSWER: Of course not ! You must repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity for having anything to do with her in the first place as there are no such thing as a platonic relationship. You must break off all communication with her and move on, minding your own business.

QUESTION: A year ago I was in a haram relationship but not now Alhamdulillah. And while we were in that haram, she used to give some gifts like Qur’an, prayer mat, t-shirt, backpack, etc. My question is, can I still use those things? Note: 1. These things don’t remind me of her. 2. I’m using them because they are a necessity at the moment.

Character and Morals, Pre-Marital Relations

27 Sep

ANSWER: It is not permissible to use such gifts or to keep them as they were not given in the first place except as a result of such haram relationship similar to a bribe that is given to an official! The official must not keep such a gift after repenting and must dispose of it.

QUESTION: My family’s marriage proposal for me was almost fixed, but I never wanted it because I loved someone else. Despite telling them, I was pressured to agree. I didn’t speak to the chosen man for six months because I didn’t want the marriage. Eventually, he understood and the proposal stopped. Now everyone is deeply hurt, and some curse me. Am I sinful for stopping the marriage and hurting everyone?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Pre-Marital Relations

23 Sep

ANSWER: You are sinful for being in a relationship with someone else but you are not sinful for refusing to marry someone you don’t want.

QUESTION: I know she’s not but we both want to get married and only rejecting me because I’m from a different tribe, rejecting because of that is haram in Islam

Invalid Marriages, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Aug

ANSWER: This is her father’s right! The marriage can’t be conducted without her consent and his. I have seen tens of similar cases where they insisted to marry against her father’s consent which ended badly after few years and few children! They claim they did not see this coming!

QUESTION: I am a Muslim teenager. If I meet a female classmate in a public mall only to talk and eat, with a sincere intention, no touching, no flirting, and no haram actions, is this permissible? Or is a one-on-one outing still haram even if we respect Islamic boundaries?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

22 Jul

ANSWER: Would you allow your sister to do that with her male classmate?

QUESTION: Sheikh, You previously said that the punishment for adultery is stoning to death, however in the quran 24:2 it is ordered to givve them a 100 lashes. What is the proper ruling? the quran or the hadith

Pre-Marital Relations, Punishments

10 Feb

ANSWER: Real Muslims usually do not differentiate between Quran and hadeeth as they are from the same source! The quran speaks about a fornicator who had never got married. The sunnah refers to stoning a person who commits adultery whether married, widowed or divorced.

QUESTION: If someone leaves a haram relationship out of fear of Allah, are they among those shaded on the Day of Judgment?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

25 Jan

ANSWER: Yes, in sha Allah

QUESTION: Can I contact my crush after months and tell him I am studying so help me

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

20 Jan

ANSWER: Its totally prohibited to have contact with non mahrams like this!

QUESTION: I met a religious and kind girl and, with halal intention, we agreed on marriage. I contacted her sister to approach her parents, but before this, her parents accepted another proposal without her consent. She is being pressured to accept. She dont like that person Is it permissible for me to continue making dua for marriage with her

Pre-Marital Relations

18 Jan

ANSWER: It is prohibited to be in contact with her in the first place. Cut all communications with her and if you are serious, propose to her father officially. Sitting back and making duaa without any action indicates that you are not actually serious

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