Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Is it permissible for a husband to divorce his wife if she financially supports her parents that too from her own earnings? My husband divorced me over this, demanding receipts of my account. I managed my expenses independently & never asked financial support from him. Do you think I made a mistake by supporting my parents after marriage? I never used his money on them nor burdened him financially

24 Apr

ANSWER: You are not sinful for not showing him your financial records as this is none of his business. You are better off without such a gold digger who is interested in your wealth. Don’t feel sad over such a person as he is not worth it. No tear should be shed on such individuals […]

QUESTION: When a man Who wanna marry a girl but have erection problem due to an operation that save his life when he was 1 month old but . How is he suppose to tell it the to girl (like in islam he is not suppose to talk directly to the girl) when even the boy’s parent and nobody khow about he’s condition? He don’t want tell it neither. What is the proper way to act?

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Apr

ANSWER: You must let it known to her father, its not permissible to deceive her and marry her without informing.

QUESTION: I want to do a nikkah with a girl with whom i have haram relationship but my sister tells my father not to marry me with that girl otherwise she’ll marry a boy which she likes but the boy she likes goes to peers and wears amulets n ol.She doesn’t let me marry she cries and pressurizes the family.I tried to make her understand but she cries loudly and says she has anxiety

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

20 Apr

ANSWER: What kind of a family do you live in? This sounds more like a soap opera with all family members indulging in affairs and haram relationships, may Allah protect us! As long as you both have repented and expressed remorse and cut all relationships and communications between the two of you and the girl […]

QUESTION: Is it permissible for a man to stipulate virginity as a condition in the marriage contract? Is it a custom of a well-mannered person?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

18 Mar

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited & inappropriate!!

QUESTION: I’m getting married. Recently I saw on Instagram the girl clicked a photo with a nonMehram and uploaded it online few yrs back. But the girl denies of any relationship in the past or present. She is happy and satisfied with our upcoming marriage. I don’t have any means to authenticate her past relationships. How to proceed with this marriage?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Mar

ANSWER: If you are checking on her past back to few years, you shouldn’t marry her for her sake and not for yours as you have a mental illness that would corrupt your marriages with her and with other women unless you manage to get it cured! Let the poor girl marry someone who would […]

QUESTION: We used to like each other, hence our parents decided to solidify the relationship, Recently, we got engaged However, my fiancé and I have always wanted a Nikkah. He asked his parents several times to have our Nikkah done, but they think that Nikkah without rukhsat is senseless, as no one knows what the future holds. In this case, are we sinful?

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

13 Mar

ANSWER: You aren’t married and hence being in contact with one another is sinful If your father agrees, you can have the contract done without his parents knowing about it and you are now man and wife and can talk and communicate without being sinful

QUESTION: Is it permissible for the prospective husband to request his future wife to undergo gynecological examinations to ensure that everything is in order?

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Mar

ANSWER: Why would he ask for such tests? She can also ask for similar tests to get even if she wants so that he would feel what she feels! For example, she can ask for a sperm count to ensure that he is not impotent and can have children !

QUESTION: If a woman’s husband is currently unemployed and is unwillingly to pay for her delivery due to parents and rent, can he ask her father to bear the delivery and post delivery expenses even if the father is retired and chronically ill? Should the daughter sell some of her gold and not burden her father?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Mar

ANSWER: 1. Of course not! What kind of a man does that?! Its his child and he must bare all the expenses!!

QUESTION: Is it a husbands job to pay for wife’s visa expenses. The amount I need to pay for came at a shock to me after marriage and I’m struggling to pay it

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Mar

ANSWER: Of course! The man is obliged to pay for all of his wife’s expenses.

QUESTION: I will be marrying a Second wife who is a divorcee with 1 Child. She has agreed to forfeit her Islamic right to equal time share by her own free will. Is it Islamicly sufficient for us to have only a verbal agreement to this, or should we both sign a contract between ourselves?

Fiqh of Marriage

06 Mar

ANSWER: Saying it verbally is sufficient while baring in mind that she has all the right to retract from such an agreement after sometime as it is her right to do so.

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