Khula

QUESTION: I was forced to get married to my uncle’s son. Who wasn’t pray a single prayer,practing shirk, and doesn’t provide for me and child. Cursing during work and promising but doesn’t keep up his words. Can’t I give khula? My parents keep forcing me to get patch up with him. For the sake of the child. But we separated for almost 2years

Divorce, Khula

16 May

ANSWER: You don’t need anyone’s approval or permission to get khula

QUESTION: My wife requested khula 3 months ago, gave a letter to the Qadi, and cut off communication without trying reconciliation. I’ve called the Qadi 7–8 times; they keep saying they’ll call but haven’t. They’ve not contacted me or her family to understand the issue. I live abroad for work but am ready to attend a meeting anytime. Should I accept the khula or wait?

Divorce, Khula

13 May

ANSWER: This is up to you! Someone that doesn’t want to live with you willingly, who would you have any interest to live with them by force? If you won’t give her Khulu, the judge would award it to her forcefully whether you like it or not as it is unislamic to force a woman […]

QUESTION: My husband is involved in adultery and doesnot want to keep me. He is not giving Talaq and insisting me to take khula so he can get Mehr(125grm of gold) back from me. If I don’t take khula, he said he and his family will continue to torture physical and mentally untill he frame me with another man or take my mahr back. What to do?

Divorce, Khula

16 Apr

ANSWER: Don’t take khula & take this matter to an Islamic court and the police and show them his threats so that they can file for marriage annulment

QUESTION: If couple haven’t meet more than 3months or never had physical relation & they get divorced do the women still need to wait for 2marriage till idat.

Divorce, Khula

22 Dec

ANSWER: As long as they were in a room and closed the door, she must observe the iddah.

QUESTION: Can a woman go back to the same husband after obtaining khula from him? Please advise under what conditions she can do that and what would be the process.

Khula

16 Dec

ANSWER: This is permissible if khulu was done and financial compensation was paid to the husband. They must get married again, with a new marriage contract, consent of her father (wali), new mahr and in the presence of 2 muslim male witnesses.

QUESTION: If parents are against divorce for their daughter because of the society and her being an infertile should she follow their wish ? Husband is very toxic, stingy , doesn’t provide properly, has fit of rage and anger issues. Has no interest on her. Porn addict , chitchat with ladies on phone. Always threat the wife of killing, leaving and giving her a lesson.

Divorce, Khula

21 Aug

ANSWER: A woman doesn’t need her father’s or family’s consent to get divorced. She doesn’t need to obey them.

QUESTION: A woman wants to take khula from her husband because of mistreatment of her husband.. but her father is against it because he believes that it’s not allowed for woman to ask for khula until she is physically harmed by the husband. Although she tried to give her marriage a few chances from past three years for the sake of Allah and her father, the husband

Fiqh of the family, Khula

04 Nov

ANSWER: The father has no such right. If the woman has a genuine reason to take khula, she doesn’t need anyone’s consent for this.

QUESTION: In the past my father bought my mother gold. I know that she has to give him back his dowry, when she wants to divorce him. But does my mother need to give him back the gold he used to buy her, besides the dowry?

Divorce, Dowry, Khula

06 Oct

ANSWER: She must only return the mahr (dowry) if she’s taking khula and not any other gifts given by him.

QUESTION: My sis got married 1nd half yr.after marriage she came to know he’s gay. She got khula recently few days back. She still holds her virginity.She was living with mum only after 3 4 months of marriage. How many days of iddah is applicable? Moulana said 3 mnths… Also can she adore herslef during the iddah period infront of mehrams!?

Divorce, Khula

30 Jul

ANSWER: Iddah for khula is one monthly cycle and she can adorn herself in front of other women and her mahrams and can go out and be normal.

QUESTION: I and my husband we separated 6 months ago and I got my Khula recently, the day I got my khula the Qazi told me that my iddah period of 100 days has started. In this period can I not visit my relatives? And how long is this period if I haven’t been in contact with my ex husband?

Divorce, Khula

22 Jun

ANSWER: The iddah after khula is one monthly cycle and not 100 days! What this man said is baseless! The moment the husband accepts khula and takes back the mahr, your iddah of one monthly cycle starts. You are not a widow and you can leave the house and go out wherever you want and […]

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