Khula

QUESTION: If couple haven’t meet more than 3months or never had physical relation & they get divorced do the women still need to wait for 2marriage till idat.

Divorce, Khula

22 Dec

ANSWER: As long as they were in a room and closed the door, she must observe the iddah.

QUESTION: Can a woman go back to the same husband after obtaining khula from him? Please advise under what conditions she can do that and what would be the process.

Khula

16 Dec

ANSWER: This is permissible if khulu was done and financial compensation was paid to the husband. They must get married again, with a new marriage contract, consent of her father (wali), new mahr and in the presence of 2 muslim male witnesses.

QUESTION: If parents are against divorce for their daughter because of the society and her being an infertile should she follow their wish ? Husband is very toxic, stingy , doesn’t provide properly, has fit of rage and anger issues. Has no interest on her. Porn addict , chitchat with ladies on phone. Always threat the wife of killing, leaving and giving her a lesson.

Divorce, Khula

21 Aug

ANSWER: A woman doesn’t need her father’s or family’s consent to get divorced. She doesn’t need to obey them.

QUESTION: A woman wants to take khula from her husband because of mistreatment of her husband.. but her father is against it because he believes that it’s not allowed for woman to ask for khula until she is physically harmed by the husband. Although she tried to give her marriage a few chances from past three years for the sake of Allah and her father, the husband

Fiqh of the family, Khula

04 Nov

ANSWER: The father has no such right. If the woman has a genuine reason to take khula, she doesn’t need anyone’s consent for this.

QUESTION: In the past my father bought my mother gold. I know that she has to give him back his dowry, when she wants to divorce him. But does my mother need to give him back the gold he used to buy her, besides the dowry?

Divorce, Dowry, Khula

06 Oct

ANSWER: She must only return the mahr (dowry) if she’s taking khula and not any other gifts given by him.

QUESTION: My sis got married 1nd half yr.after marriage she came to know he’s gay. She got khula recently few days back. She still holds her virginity.She was living with mum only after 3 4 months of marriage. How many days of iddah is applicable? Moulana said 3 mnths… Also can she adore herslef during the iddah period infront of mehrams!?

Divorce, Khula

30 Jul

ANSWER: Iddah for khula is one monthly cycle and she can adorn herself in front of other women and her mahrams and can go out and be normal.

QUESTION: I and my husband we separated 6 months ago and I got my Khula recently, the day I got my khula the Qazi told me that my iddah period of 100 days has started. In this period can I not visit my relatives? And how long is this period if I haven’t been in contact with my ex husband?

Divorce, Khula

22 Jun

ANSWER: The iddah after khula is one monthly cycle and not 100 days! What this man said is baseless! The moment the husband accepts khula and takes back the mahr, your iddah of one monthly cycle starts. You are not a widow and you can leave the house and go out wherever you want and […]

QUESTION: If a girl wants divorce but her brother doesn’t allow but Father allow it because it is unhappy marriage so is her brother doing right ?

Divorce, Khula

20 Jun

ANSWER: No, he has no right or say in this. Others can only advise her but cannot make the decision for her.

QUESTION: During wedding ,bride gets lots of gifts from groom side in the form of gold jewellery…That can be given inlaws ,bro in law,sis in law or groom uncle etc…my question is..at the time of khula or talaq…the groom family demands all that gift back,,is it permissible?iam not talking about mahar

Fiqh of Marriage, Khula

13 Sep

ANSWER: No, this is not permissible at all! Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said a person who takes back his gift is like a dog who vomits and then eats its own vomit! Only the mahr must be returned when she takes khula.

If a girl is not able to grow affection for her husband even after marriage and only for the sake of her deen she’s forcing herself to like him. Will she be sinful to ask khula from her husband merely on the basis of not being able to like him?

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage, Khula

20 May

ANSWER: If she is unable to give him his rights and has great resentment for him, she is not sinful for getting a khulu.

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