QUESTION: I’m a 27 year old niqabi girl from Pakistan. A proposal came and the guy has a good akhlaaq that everyone praises and doesn’t object to my veil and the family is nice. The problem is that he’s Barelvi and also prays just on and off. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages, Sects
02 Jul

ANSWER: It is totally prohibited to marry such a person!

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QUESTION: Im blessed with 4 daughters and we desire for baby boy next.Can i do IVF treatment as this like choose the baby gender.Is it allowed in Islam?

Fiqh of Marriage, Medicine and medical treatments
27 Jun

ANSWER: It is not permissible to do IVF treatment when you already have children.

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QUESTION: Many people say “Kabul kabul kabul” as a joke in terms of marriage. And so many group members are witnessing it. Does it make a real marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages
24 Jun

ANSWER: This is nonsense and mocking the rules of Allah and no marriage takes place like this!

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QUESTION: I didn’thad thecourage tobe firm wen proposal came dueto thefact tht mostfamilies don’tapprove we likesomeone& wish to marry.but still ilet themknow inresponse they gotangry told itsgood,I got neutral,went with the flow,but after it gotfixed, Irealise I only find compatibility with tht person.nikah isn’t done.am I disobedient ifIchoosea spouse acc to myliking & want my family to move frwd w this?

Fiqh of Marriage
23 Jun

ANSWER: No one can force you to marry someone you don’t like. However, you can’t marry anyone without the approval of your father.  Therefore, a bird at hand is better than 10 on the tree! If this suitor you had agreed to is a righteous practicing Muslim, you should go ahead and accept it as […]

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QUESTION: My mobile phone,password,E mails are not at all part of my privacy for the sake of my wife.Is it allowable for me ask girl does she feels the same and by this I may select/reject her if she says yes/no respectively?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters
23 Jun

ANSWER: No, you have no right to ask for her passwords.

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QUESTION: The thing is I just want to make my parents proud of me and give them money, I don’t want to get married in the future even if they tell me to. is it ok?

Fiqh of Marriage
21 Jun

ANSWER: If you are normal, this is going against the sunnah. 

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QUESTION: My son doesnt pray regularly once or twice a day even though I ask him So he is now 24 yrs old and he is supposed to get married since he has completed his graduation so shall i look for a muslum girl for him or leave him on his own

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Prayer
12 Jun

ANSWER: Don’t get involved and make it clear to him that you can’t put your reputation on the line in front of others when he doesn’t pray and is not committed to Islam as people would consider this cheating them. Tell him clearly that if you were asked, you would spill the beans and tell […]

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QUESTION: I am 21 years old man studying in university. I fell in love with a girl and started a relationship. It’s been 6 months. I’m ready to marry her as her family accepts me. But since I have done haram relationship with her, should I breakup and repent or should I continue my approach of marrying her?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations
11 Jun

ANSWER: You must stop all communication and contact with her immediately and sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this Haram relationship and after that you can approach her father and proceed with the marriage if you think that she would be a good Muslim wife and a good mother for your children. […]

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QUESTION: I hve 2 proposals, 1st is in UK, salafi aqeeda, but doesnt pray zuhr & sometime asr bcz office & did smoking in past whch he told us he has quit now (should dis be ignored? I dnt knw if he has other bad habits). 2nd in Jazan, is a relative & comes from deoband fam. How is it to move to west for future gens exposure to lgbt sex educ? Or its bttr 2 marry deobandi & stay in KSA? Pls advise.

Fiqh of Marriage, Sects
10 Jun

ANSWER: It’s not permissible to marry a deobandi. Keep on looking for a righteous practicing Muslim 

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QUESTION: Does a rightoeus wife do all household work perfectly without any mistakes. Does it mean that if I forget something in the fridge or I didn’t see anything properly once in a while. . I need to be scolded or insulted compared with others for not doing the home work properly.? Is your wife and your daughters perfect in household work.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses
09 Jun

ANSWER: This is not fair nor just! He himself has many flaws and shortcomings and two can play this game!

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