Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Sheikh, Is it mandatory to get married ? Is it okay that I sacrifice sex and pray to God to help me to perform celibacy ? I think my sole responsibility is towards my parents not the women who I get to know and marry within days.

Fiqh of Marriage

10 Jul

ANSWER: This is not permissible as its transgression in dua. If you have the urge and desire to have intimacy with women then you must get married and it’s mandatory for you. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/87998/ruling-on-one-who-forbids-marriage-for-himself

QUESTION: Is it mandatory for a girl to serve her mother and father all her life, and don’t get married, while others refuse to serve them!? What’s ruling in Islam?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

10 Jul

ANSWER: If there is no one to take care of them and if they’re not self sufficient and the would be husband wouldn’t agree her to take care of them after marriage then yes, she must give priority to looking after them.

QUESTION: Sheikh In Islam is it permissible to marry (nikah) the same person twice without getting divorced? My brother is in US he got married with a girl there and now they want to get married again in India in front of their family?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

08 Jul

ANSWER: If it’s only a function and a party they want to throw then no problem in this as long as it’s a segregated event without music or anything haram. It is not permissible to make the marriage contract twice.

QUESTION: I was wondering if we could rely upon scholar ibn Taymiyyah’s statement that it’s the fathers’s choice to name his children if he and his wife are in dispute as he didn’t mention the evidence to this from either Qur’an or Hadith? And in general can we rely upon scholar’s statements even if they don’t mention the evidence to their claims?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pedagogy education and upbringing

26 Jun

ANSWER: The statement is 100% true. It is the sole right of the father to name his children as they would be carrying his name.

QUESTION: My husband says his Only responsibility is to earn. Is that true? He doesn’t help me in any way. Me or kids I’ll not his concern, he goes out and chill with friends but demands me to fulfill whatever he orders. Is that true that I’ve to obey him ANYWAY?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Jun

ANSWER: What he is doing is totally wrong as he is responsible for his children and his wife in other means than financial provision! It is his responsibility to teach them all about Islam and to raise them up to be good individuals in their communities. The wife can also claim that her responsibility is […]

QUESTION: I know that a wife is supposed to obey her husband in Islam. But if a husband doesn’t allow his wife to meet her parents even if they’re in critical condition and may die if they don’t get help, should the wife still obey him? Will she be sinful for still going to her parents to help them? If yes, then plz explain why.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

23 Jun

ANSWER: If there is no one to help them for real, this becomes an obligation upon their daughter and she must do that even if her husband divorces her. She should be diplomatic with him and try to convince him peacefully.

QUESTION: Can a girl who is a practicing Muslim marry a guy who goes to Dargah but he doesn’t mind her being a practicing Muslim?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

19 Jun

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited as a Muslim woman can’t marry except a Muslim man.

QUESTION: Men nowadays expect their wife to contribute financially. Nd who are eager to pay for their wives, in many cases- they humiliate their wife saying – I feed u, u r lazy, u can’t earn a penny, you sat idly at home doing nothing. Now what should I do as a young girl. How can I do a job when many job makes me compromise the Hijab and requires interaction with non-mahram men?i also cant accpet such wor

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Jun

ANSWER: You need to choose your husband carefully and make it clear to him that you are not willing to work as real men are the sole breadwinners in a Muslim house.

QUESTION: My nieces husband will not allow her to leave the house unless unaccompanied by him She is not allowed to sit in the front of the car with him She is not allowed to go outdoors with her mother or any other female relative She wears a full hijab He has said that even if she wears niqab he will not change his rule She is struggling with this and wants to know if it is permissible

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Jun

ANSWER: I don’t know the full story here but I have seen many similar cases where it ended in divorce as such enslaving of the wife has dire consequences in the future but it would have been too late then. She must get him to have counseling or she is better off without such a […]

QUESTION: Sheik I am pregnant and living with my mother because I am not well but my husband doesn’t support me financially and he says that my parents should take the responsibility of first child birth expenses

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Jun

ANSWER: What he is saying it an absolute lie and not related to Islam. It might be related to Hinduism! You and your child are his sole responsibility and he must provide for both of you. He can stop providing for you if you left his home without his permission.

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