Fiqh of Marriage

When everyone is sitting and eating if husband needs water is it responsibility of wife to get up and get it to him or if he himself takes water is there any problm like wife disrespects her husband like that.what if wife didnt take water n gve to him is it permissible in islm? Is it a sin?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Dec

ANSWER: This is a cultural thing! Most Islamic countries consider this as part of honoring the husband and respecting him. Only those in the west consider this to be anti feminist and would fight against it! Probably this is why their marriages don’t last long.

Its almost one year dat am staying with ma parents.Ma husband s with his parents dey r telling us to shift to rented home bt he wont afford dat so dey want me to sell of ma gold to lease a home for both of us.Wat am supposed to do?

Fiqh of Marriage

10 Dec

ANSWER: Providing a roof over you is the responsibility of your husband. It is not your obligation that you use any of your money to provide for a home or it’s rent. No one can tell you what to do with your possessions. Whether you choose to help out or not, is entirely upon you. […]

I have read it is makrooh to marry an infertile woman. Is it okay for a guy to marry an infertile girl knowing she is infertile or is it better to marry a fertile girl? Is there any consequences for doing this if it is makrooh

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Oct

ANSWER: No problem in marrying infertile people. Marrying fertile women is a recommendation, not a rule. A barren woman can be a second or third wife. If the possibility of her conceiving is there and she is a righteous woman go ahead with it. The prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam recommended men who have […]

Sheikh, my sister is a divorcee and is getting married. My father passed away and non of my uncles from my dad side are alive. In this case who will be her wali?

Fiqh of Marriage

23 Oct

ANSWER: Her paternal cousins.

I’m sitting with the groom for meeting without niqab and we’re talking with each other.And my father and other family members are sitting in far from us, they can see us but can’t hear us.Is it permissible?

Fiqh of Marriage

16 Oct

ANSWER: Your father should be able to hear the conversation as such seclusion is prohibited as he is a non mahram.

Is it permissible to ask the girl you want to meet before proposal to dress in tight clothes (jeans etc) so you can get a picture of what kind of woman you’re marrying since due to fitna alot of men have desires for a particular body shape?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

09 Oct

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited and you would be kicked out of the house and no father would ever let you in his house to meet his daughter for marriage! You might be better off going to the cattle market!

Sheikh My cousin got married to a famous Comedian youtuber of my city ! And she always call herself superior and look down on girls and show off on social media & threat other girls by Messaging them ! She told me Allah loves her so much that’s why she got married to a famous handsome youtuber ! what advice would you like to give her?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage, Sports, Entertainment and Music

05 Oct

ANSWER: If Allah loved her, He would get her married to someone who is righteous and practicing and not to a joker. Mostly such marriages will break in few months or years. Just wait for it, and make duaa that Allah guides her back to Islam. Paradise is prohibited for anyone who has a grain […]

The father lives in a different country. But the paternal uncle lives in the same country as his brother’s wife and daughters. Since the father can’t be there, who should be in the marriage meeting when a man comes for his daughter? Is it permissible for the mother and daughter to be there with the potential husband and his mother?

Fiqh of Marriage

24 Sep

ANSWER: They can’t sit with the potential suitor as he is non mahram to them. The father must authorized his brother to be her guardian and sit with the suitor.

My mother hates my husband for no reason and wants me to get a divorce cause we only have one child! He’s always good to her and respectful but she keeps pushing me to divorce my husband who is a great husband and a father? What should I do? She depresses me about it! Can I cut communication with her?!

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

23 Sep

ANSWER: You must not listen to her in this regard at all and must say it respectfully but firmly to her that you won’t hear anything about your husband or your married life from anyone. Whenever she starts to talk about him, either change the topic or leave her. It’s not permissible to cut communication […]

Sheikh, this brother is soon going to arrange his walima soon in shaa Allah. now, a feast without the poor is the most despicable food right? so if he invites his aunt who lives in village and imaam and muazzin from mosque, they are poor. will this suffice?

Fiqh of Marriage, Sports, Entertainment and Music

21 Sep

ANSWER: No problem in not inviting the poor if this is not done out of arrogance. However, he should focus on inviting righteous people, regardless of their financial status.

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