Fiqh of Marriage

Kindly advise me what should i do about my husband who plays video games everyday and on weekends all day from morning to night. He is a video games addict who neglects his wife and baby also. When he is back from work he plays until he sleeps and gives us maybe ab hour or 2. Should i resort to khula as there everytime i speak about it he ends up abusing me.

11 Nov

ANSWER: This is not a valid reason for asking for divorce! At least he’s giving you an hour or 2, there are husbands who don’t even give that much time to their wives. Be grateful to Allah for the immense blessings He has bestowed on you. Develop a halal hobby, learn about your deen in […]

If a common woman wants to marry with an islamic scholar then is it okay or stupidity?

Fiqh of Marriage

10 Nov

ANSWER: Generally speaking, there is no problem in this. It is not befitting of a Muslima to represent herself or offer heself in marriage. Her male guardian should be the one representing her and asking the man if he is interested in marrying her.

In islam, is it permissible to drink wife breast milk? If supposed drank the wife breast milk, will the relationship change from wife?

Breast Feeding, Fiqh of Marriage

08 Nov

ANSWER: No problem in suckling his wife’s breasts when being intimate but drinking her breast milk is very weird and not normal at all. However if he does drink the milk, the relationship between spouses is not affected.

Is it permissible to celebrate wedding anniversary within the spouses. Just like going for a dinner,, gifting each other without posting in social medias??

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

08 Nov

ANSWER: This is not permissible as it is imitating the disbelievers. Real Muslim couple enjoy the Marriage all year round and not one day a year!

Is visiting marriage counseller haram?

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Nov

ANSWER: Of course not. If there’s a problem between spouses then it’s recommended for them to visit a muslim marriage counselor.

I have chosen a spouse for marriage and my father was not agreeing in beginning but now Alhamdulillah he agreed to proceed. My father is not practicing Muslim. He has chosen the local imam who does not have correct aqeeda and gives taweez to women. If I tell dad to change the imam he gets angry and is strict on him performing the nikah. What should we do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

04 Nov

ANSWER: The imam has no impact on the validity of the marriage. He only registers it. When your father says to the groom in the presence of two male Muslim witnesses : I give you my daughter in marriage and he answers: I accept, the Marraige is done.

Need to clarify a doubt. As a mother i am disturbed v badly to take a decision. I found a match for my daughter who matches everything except the height. Boy n the girl they both are 5.3 height. Can i accept the proposal? Kindly advice me Sheikh pl.

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Nov

ANSWER: Accept it if he is righteous and practicing even if he is shorter than her! They are going to get married and not pose for modeling!

Shaikh when im mensturating and my husband feels the need for sex, he asks me to relieve him by hand, is this ok to do? Also is it allowed for him to relieve me by his hand during mentruation (i know penetration is not allowed) but with his hand is it ok to do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

15 Oct

ANSWER: Yes, this is permissible in both cases.

Sir how can we judge whether the boy is one with whom we should get married as per our Islam?

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Oct

ANSWER: This is done through investigating by asking the imam of the masjid whether he is regular in prayer or not and by asking his colleagues and relatives about his character etc.

my husband used to work abroad. I recently discovered he had an affair for at least 2years whilst he was working away. He has now returned to be together with our children, he won’t give me any details of the affair. I am trying to forgive and move on but I’m very suspicious. Is it permissible to hack his mobile.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Oct

ANSWER: This is not permissible as spying is prohibited in Islam. If he is remorseful over what he had done and he wants to be with you and his children, forgive him for the sake of Allah as by not doing this, you will be letting Shaytan destroy your marriage and life.

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