Fiqh of Marriage

Iam pregnant &already have 2 girls alhumdulilah.My husband now a days kind of threateneds me that if I don’t give him a boy he would marry someone else.I know it’s halal to have 4 wives but I just wanna know on this reason that a women cannot give birth to a boy he can marry another women?I always say him it’s not in my hands to make a boy or girl,also I make plenty of dua for boy.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Pedagogy education and upbringing

20 Feb

ANSWER: He is an ignorant imbecile. It is in Allah’s hands who gets girls and who gets boys. Scientists have also concluded that it is the sperm of the man that is responsible of that and not the woman’s. It is his right to take a second wife and i know tens of men who […]

Sheikh my wife cut her hair without asking me … She knows that I don’t like her getting haircut. I don’t like it and when I asked her she lied that she has not cut whereas I am sure as I saw the hair in bin..I didn’t like it and I am not talking to her and not getting physical to make her feel ..but i am fulfilling my all responsibilities for her .. am I wrong?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Feb

ANSWER: You are doing all of this over such a trivial issue? What kind of a husband are you? It is wrong from her side to cut her hair agains your wish but it seems that you have a problem! It seems that the hair you saw was not so much as you couldn’t tell […]

Does a wife have2seek permission frm the husband4everything?Husbands sister makes her brothers ask her husband4permission2come over2their house,it’s not enough her asking permission,she calls up her brothers2seek her husbands permission as well.Husband uses example of her life, how his sister respects her husband,implying he wants me2do the same,he’s saying l can’t do anything without permission

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Feb

ANSWER: She is obliged to ask for his permission only in what is related to his own rights as a husband such as fasting voluntary fasts and going out or inviting people to his house. She doesn’t need his permission before she eats or changes her clothes or takes a shower!

Lied2hubby about giving sadaqah2our nan,I bring in the income4now, married my paternal cousin, he lives in Bangladesh, having2work2bring him2Uk.He gets jealous, tells his family everything,they backbite,they always wnt my family2gve them money, he tells me why I shouldn’t help my paternal family who live in Bangladesh he’s happy when I help his dad/siblings,wld never refuse.

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Feb

ANSWER: This is not a healthy marriage! Any man who benefits from his wife’s earnings and has no problem in her spending money over him and his family is not a real man and you must be very conservative with your wealth and not disclose anything of your income or expenditure to him or to […]

Is it suitable to perform any engagement/marriage ceremony in the last week of Rajab month? If not, then is there any particular day/month not prescribed for doing important things.Plz guide Sheikh

Fiqh of Marriage, Superstitions

04 Feb

ANSWER: No problem in having nikah done on any date of any month of the year! There are no restrictions none whatsoever and there are no prescribed days or months that are recommended for such things!

Is it permissable to ask a potential spouse to sign a prenuptial agreement in order to protect my wealth in case of divorce? I am a woman living in the West, and divorce laws are different here.I will take every measure to marry someone who is righteous and God fearing, but unfortunately shaytan can come to anyone.

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

28 Jan

ANSWER: It is permissible to put such clauses during nikah as a prenuptial agreement.

What is the ruling on a man who is married to a woman and her female cousin at the same time?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

23 Jan

ANSWER: No problem in this. It’s prohibited to marry the blood sisters and aunt and neice at the same time.

Is the dua of the husband for his wife as strong as the dua of the parent for his son/daughter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Supplications

21 Jan

ANSWER: No.

If my father and my husband have different opinions and they give me different suggestions in a situation, whome should I obey? Who has more rights over me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

21 Jan

ANSWER: This is too generic. If it is something not related to any of them, it is your preference to choose what you want as if it is related to how to fix your car! But if it is related to something that relates to your husband’s rights such as how to wear your hair […]

Does husband and wife relationship becomes invalid if they live apart for more than 15 years with their mutual decison and without giving any divorce or khula??

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

19 Jan

ANSWER: No, the marriage does not become invalid. They’re still considered as husband and wife.

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