Fiqh of Marriage

I’m not interested in having a baby right now as I’m studying. My husband has agreed to it. I’ve been having OCP for 1 year which is making me sick. Doctor’s advised me to substitute OCP with a condom as. I’ve stopped taking OCP. But I can’t trust condoms as they may rupture anytime; as me & my 2 elders were born accidentally from our parents with ruptured condoms. I’m prevent him for few months?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Mar

ANSWER: This is not permissible for you to delay giving him his rights in bed! Refusing him means that the angels curse you every night till the break of dawn! What life is this for a husband who can’t get his rights because his wife wants to study?

If my husband is shouting on my mother in law in front of me with words like, “use your brain otherwise don’t irritate me, you are brainless and so our maternal relatives”, as his wife, what should i do? And if i don’t say anything because of the fear that my husband might fight with me, am i wrong? Please help.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Mar

ANSWER: You must not say a word and simply not be in the same place and when he is in a good mood, talk about the major sin of being disrespectful to parents without taking his name, with diplomacy, wisdom and knowledge.

Sheikh I want to know whether in islam is only the husband allowed to get angry and burst out n shout at wife or the wife is also allowed to express her anger whenever he is wrong? Because I feel I am not allowed to be angry at all, even if I try he asks me watch my tone n behave, how is this fair sheikh?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Mar

ANSWER: The husband has great rights over his wife as the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam has said: if I were to order someone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate to her husband! The same way that he is not allowed to raise his voice in front of […]

Does this mean that he is cursed, and ALLAH will not look at him and that he is a kafir? – how should someone repent? Should he say that sahadatayn and repent. Please answer me i am very confused (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The one who has intercourse with his wife in her back passage has disavowed himself of that which was revealed to Muhammad (peace and ble

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

22 Mar

ANSWER: His has committed minor kufr. If he repents and shows remorse, Allah will forgive him.

Is it compulsory for a wife to obey each and every order of her husband? Because my husband wants me to listen to every single thing and says that it is compulsory or I will be sinful

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Mar

ANSWER: A wife is not a slave! She is not obliged to obey the husband in everything he tells her unless it is related to his rights as a husband such as in the way she looks etc. If he tells her to stand and not to sit, she is not obliged to obey him!

Sheikh i love a non muslim girl but i have not been in a relationship with her i want a halal marriage can i pray to Allah bless to accept islam and ask her hand for marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage

21 Mar

ANSWER: No problem in making dua without having any contact with her. However, you would want to marry a woman who would be an ideal mother of your children who would raise them on islam and not someone who may reject Islam and run away with your children and make them follow her religion!

Are we allowed to marry Christians and try to convert them afterwards?

Fiqh of Marriage, Religions

21 Mar

ANSWER: Marrying a chaste Christian woman is permissible but it is not advisable. If they choose to convert by themselves and out of their own will, this is fine but one can’t guarantee that this would happen or that she won’t negatively impact the children to be christians!

A man who, whenever he ask wife for sex but accepts it if she asks to wait for another time, out of desire to not cause discomfort for her, & only has sex if she’s ‘in the mood’. From Islam’s perspective, do we praise this man for being considerate to wife’s feeling or do we say he should not do this as it may give bad encouragement to wife (eg it may end up that she keeps doing this)?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Mar

ANSWER: He is rewarded for being considerate providing this doesn’t harm him.

I wanna marry someone but as per my knowledge he is engaged in some prohibited things . He Don’t wanna marry me as he can’t talk to his family members and I’m thinking that I should pray for him that Allah changes him and open door of marriage for me with him. I am not in contact with him now. I really wanna marry him. Am I doing right if not then what should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Mar

ANSWER: No, you are not doing the right thing at all! You are not a doormat and he is not the last man on earth! Someone who is sinful and proud of it and he doesn’t have the courage to speak to his parents and he is not man enough to marry you, who would […]

When two potentials want to get to know each other for marriage purposes, when they are in the group chat with Wali and them two. Does the wali always have to be online at the same time as the two potentials and read the messages then and there or can the two potentials talk to each other on that chat and the wali sees all the messages later?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Mar

ANSWER: This is not permissible. There’s only one initial meeting allowed between the potential suitor and the girl in her mahram’s presence.

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