ANSWER:

No, you are not doing the right thing at all!

You are not a doormat and he is not the last man on earth!

Someone who is sinful and proud of it and he doesn’t have the courage to speak to his parents and he is not man enough to marry you, who would ever consider marrying someone like him?

There is no security in marrying someone like this.

Fear Allah and totally forget all about him and repent to Allah and ask Him for forgiveness. Allah will send you someone better than him.

I wanna marry someone but as per my knowledge he is engaged in some prohibited things . He Don’t wanna marry me as he can’t talk to his family members and I’m thinking that I should pray for him that Allah changes him and open door of marriage for me with him. I am not in contact with him now. I really wanna marry him. Am I doing right if not then what should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations | March 10, 2022 11:46 am
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When two potentials want to get to know each other for marriage purposes, when they are in the group chat with Wali and them two. Does the wali always have to be online at the same time as the two potentials and read the messages then and there or can the two potentials talk to each other on that chat and the wali sees all the messages later?
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A man who, whenever he ask wife for sex but accepts it if she asks to wait for another time, out of desire to not cause discomfort for her, & only has sex if she’s ‘in the mood’. From Islam’s perspective, do we praise this man for being considerate to wife’s feeling or do we say he should not do this as it may give bad encouragement to wife (eg it may end up that she keeps doing this)?