Kind Treatment of Spouses

Does a wife have2seek permission frm the husband4everything?Husbands sister makes her brothers ask her husband4permission2come over2their house,it’s not enough her asking permission,she calls up her brothers2seek her husbands permission as well.Husband uses example of her life, how his sister respects her husband,implying he wants me2do the same,he’s saying l can’t do anything without permission

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Feb

ANSWER: She is obliged to ask for his permission only in what is related to his own rights as a husband such as fasting voluntary fasts and going out or inviting people to his house. She doesn’t need his permission before she eats or changes her clothes or takes a shower!

I’m going to foreign country for my work. I’m married since 5 months. And my mom died 2 years ago. I live with my wife, my father and my little sister. And my 2 sisters are married. Should I take my wife with me to that foreign country or leave her at home to take care of my father. My wife is pregnant…

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

12 Jan

ANSWER: Of course you must take her with you! She is not your parents’ or siblings’ servant!

When everyone is sitting and eating if husband needs water is it responsibility of wife to get up and get it to him or if he himself takes water is there any problm like wife disrespects her husband like that.what if wife didnt take water n gve to him is it permissible in islm? Is it a sin?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Dec

ANSWER: This is a cultural thing! Most Islamic countries consider this as part of honoring the husband and respecting him. Only those in the west consider this to be anti feminist and would fight against it! Probably this is why their marriages don’t last long.

My friend has women following his social media account, but he does not follow them back. His wife strongly dislikes it and he justifies it saying its halal and he isn’t sinful as he isn’t following them back. But his wife is upset and says he doesn’t care about her feelings, and she wants him to remove them, as she doesnt want other women to look at his pictures. What is your advice for him?

Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Social Media

23 Aug

ANSWER: He should not allow such non mahram women to look at his photos and follow him if such photos are personal and his social media platforms are not Islamic or used for spreading beneficial knowledge. This is one of the steps of satan

My wife trying to practice islam.bt now a days she is so much addicted in fb and she watches movie clips on fb most of the times.she is so much addicted that sometims she doesn’t concern about me.i call hr bt she didn’t respnd and kp watching fb.i tld hr instead of watching fb,you may read islamic books.but she didnt care.how cn i deal with hr in this case?

Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Social Media

20 Aug

ANSWER: You need to have a serious discussion with her as what she is doing is a sin and it is your duty to prevent her from doing such a sin. If she doesn’t listen, stop paying for the WiFi and her mobile phone bills to reduce her time watching such filth.

Wife started online business after marriage. Does husband possess rights to refrain her from it? How much percentage of profit can he ask from her wife on the condition of allowing her continue the business? (Nothing was stipulated in marriage contract)

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

04 Aug

ANSWER: He has no right to stop her as long as she doesn’t leave the house and doesn’t prevent him from his rights! What kind of a man demands money from his wife when she works from home? No real man would accept this if offered, let alone demand it!

How to deal with abusive parents who are mentally abusing me and my wife every few days. When I to moved to another house, father said he will disown me. I am going into depression. Please advise.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Jul

ANSWER: Move out of the house as this is your wife’s right upon you and your parents will eventually accept this, it may take time but after sometime they will have to come to terms with it. Be respectful, diplomatic and humble towards your parents in all situations while at the same time not compromising […]

I am married for a 1.5 year. Me and my husband are in long distance relationship which i do not like. He has gone to other country for job.I live with my in laws .I feel alone. Recently i had a miscarriage, since then i am depressed so much. I ask my husband to come soon.I can’t live like this.he calls me mad if i complain. Am i sinful if i dont talk to him?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

04 Jul

ANSWER: You need to weigh the consequences of your actions and consider your options and what you want from this marriage. If you behave in a certain way while he is away from you, he could easily consider divorcing this woman whom he has no children from and she is causing him and his family […]

I was calling my wife for fazr prayer last night and she was in deep sleep. I called her few times she said she will get up after few minutes. I was calling her constantly then she got angry and said if I do this she won’t get up(for prayer). She then got up and prayed. Is her statement Kufr? That she said if you do this I won’t get up

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer

27 Jun

ANSWER: It is not up to individuals to make takfeer on others as this can only be done by a Muslim judge or ruler. Insisting on getting someone out of the fold of Islam is the methodology of khawarij, the hounds of Hell. You must be more diplomatic and compassionate instead of wanting to get your own wife into […]

My husbnd is not replyng to WhatsApp msgs since Eid (anthr country). My 5 yr son asks 4 video call wd him. I called n he didn’t pickup. He didn’t ask again. My parents r harshly critical of me n thnk of me as a burden. Plz pray for my sanity. I’m havng lot of health issues. I’m so angry! I hit my son n thn cry! I LOVE him

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Jun

ANSWER: May Allah ease all your affairs and give you the best in both worlds. Fear Allah and don’t hit your child as he is innocent and you can’t blame him for your shortcomings and that of your husband. Stop calling your husband for few months and don’t even text him so that he would […]

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