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You need to weigh the consequences of your actions and consider your options and what you want from this marriage. 

If you behave in a certain way while he is away from you, he could easily consider divorcing this woman whom he has no children from and she is causing him and his family a lot of trouble though he is in a far away land trying to secure a decent income for you to live! 

If you don’t talk to him, either he will come back running to you or he will ignore you and his love for you will fade away as you want him to come back and beg in the streets to put food on the table. 

Do you think he is happy living in a foreign country away from all of his loved ones? He has sacrificed a lot and when he sees what you are doing to him, this won’t be very helpful for you marriage.  

I am married for a 1.5 year. Me and my husband are in long distance relationship which i do not like. He has gone to other country for job.I live with my in laws .I feel alone. Recently i had a miscarriage, since then i am depressed so much. I ask my husband to come soon.I can’t live like this.he calls me mad if i complain. Am i sinful if i dont talk to him?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | July 4, 2021 9:51 am
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I have received a proposal which is currently under discussion. All the terms are fine between both families. But the problem is that I wear naqaab from my non-maharim like my brother in law. The proposed guy has 4 brothers and they live together in joint family system. So they have asked to observe hijab at home but not to cover the face from his brothers.
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In a joint family do my wife has to wear the jilbab all the time or just if she dkes niqab it’s ok?if she wears a dress like gown(not as outer garment like jilbab but only a cloth where her bones curves are not visible) in joint family then is it ok?