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She is obliged to ask for his permission only in what is related to his own rights as a husband such as fasting voluntary fasts and going out or inviting people to his house.

She doesn’t need his permission before she eats or changes her clothes or takes a shower! 

Does a wife have2seek permission frm the husband4everything?Husbands sister makes her brothers ask her husband4permission2come over2their house,it’s not enough her asking permission,she calls up her brothers2seek her husbands permission as well.Husband uses example of her life, how his sister respects her husband,implying he wants me2do the same,he’s saying l can’t do anything without permission

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | February 16, 2022 1:08 am
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