Kind Treatment of Spouses

Shaikh I’m living in india, and my mom force me to live with joined family, and I have a my brother at home, i tell my mother that it’s not permesible, for my wife to live in a same house, with her brother in law , but she starts crying. And forcing me to live with her, what can I do.

Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Mar

ANSWER: Get a separate home, furnish it and get it ready for you to move into it. Once it is ready, tell your mother and move out and apologize for her that you had already paid the rent of one year.

Sheikh If a wife is trying her best to obey her husband,always trying to do what he likes, appreciating him but d husband is always shouting and complaining,never over looking a small mistake but she remains patient and continue trying. Will she be sinful because her husband is not satisfied?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Mar

ANSWER: If she’s doing her best yet he’s not satisfied, she’s not sinful. Allah will reward her for her patience and will punish him for his ingratitude.

I’m not interested in having a baby right now as I’m studying. My husband has agreed to it. I’ve been having OCP for 1 year which is making me sick. Doctor’s advised me to substitute OCP with a condom as. I’ve stopped taking OCP. But I can’t trust condoms as they may rupture anytime; as me & my 2 elders were born accidentally from our parents with ruptured condoms. I’m prevent him for few months?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Mar

ANSWER: This is not permissible for you to delay giving him his rights in bed! Refusing him means that the angels curse you every night till the break of dawn! What life is this for a husband who can’t get his rights because his wife wants to study?

Sheikh I want to know whether in islam is only the husband allowed to get angry and burst out n shout at wife or the wife is also allowed to express her anger whenever he is wrong? Because I feel I am not allowed to be angry at all, even if I try he asks me watch my tone n behave, how is this fair sheikh?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Mar

ANSWER: The husband has great rights over his wife as the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam has said: if I were to order someone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate to her husband! The same way that he is not allowed to raise his voice in front of […]

Is it compulsory for a wife to obey each and every order of her husband? Because my husband wants me to listen to every single thing and says that it is compulsory or I will be sinful

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Mar

ANSWER: A wife is not a slave! She is not obliged to obey the husband in everything he tells her unless it is related to his rights as a husband such as in the way she looks etc. If he tells her to stand and not to sit, she is not obliged to obey him!

A man who, whenever he ask wife for sex but accepts it if she asks to wait for another time, out of desire to not cause discomfort for her, & only has sex if she’s ‘in the mood’. From Islam’s perspective, do we praise this man for being considerate to wife’s feeling or do we say he should not do this as it may give bad encouragement to wife (eg it may end up that she keeps doing this)?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Mar

ANSWER: He is rewarded for being considerate providing this doesn’t harm him.

Sheikh.. if a woman prays the five daily prayers, fasts in Ramadhan, safeguards her chastity and obeys her husband, she will enter into Jannah from any door she wishes..Is this hadith authentic?

Commentary on Hadeeth, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Feb

ANSWER: Yes, this is authentic.

Iam pregnant &already have 2 girls alhumdulilah.My husband now a days kind of threateneds me that if I don’t give him a boy he would marry someone else.I know it’s halal to have 4 wives but I just wanna know on this reason that a women cannot give birth to a boy he can marry another women?I always say him it’s not in my hands to make a boy or girl,also I make plenty of dua for boy.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Pedagogy education and upbringing

20 Feb

ANSWER: He is an ignorant imbecile. It is in Allah’s hands who gets girls and who gets boys. Scientists have also concluded that it is the sperm of the man that is responsible of that and not the woman’s. It is his right to take a second wife and i know tens of men who […]

Sheikh my wife cut her hair without asking me … She knows that I don’t like her getting haircut. I don’t like it and when I asked her she lied that she has not cut whereas I am sure as I saw the hair in bin..I didn’t like it and I am not talking to her and not getting physical to make her feel ..but i am fulfilling my all responsibilities for her .. am I wrong?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Feb

ANSWER: You are doing all of this over such a trivial issue? What kind of a husband are you? It is wrong from her side to cut her hair agains your wish but it seems that you have a problem! It seems that the hair you saw was not so much as you couldn’t tell […]

Does a wife have2seek permission frm the husband4everything?Husbands sister makes her brothers ask her husband4permission2come over2their house,it’s not enough her asking permission,she calls up her brothers2seek her husbands permission as well.Husband uses example of her life, how his sister respects her husband,implying he wants me2do the same,he’s saying l can’t do anything without permission

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Feb

ANSWER: She is obliged to ask for his permission only in what is related to his own rights as a husband such as fasting voluntary fasts and going out or inviting people to his house. She doesn’t need his permission before she eats or changes her clothes or takes a shower!

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