Kind Treatment of Spouses

The husband has duty from morning think 5am to 5pm. And then he goes around with his friends or does something which doesn’t allow him to spend time in house with his wife. How much can he spend his time with his friends? And hour or 3 hours or etc? Even if the case was that he is giving dawah but also neglecting wife. How much can he stay away from her?

30 Oct

ANSWER: There is no prescribed time to be allocated to the wife. The best of men balances his time and give all their due right.

If the husband doesn’t love his wife, should he force himself to be kind to her? Is it obligatory to be kind towards them or be just be cold?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Oct

ANSWER: Yes, he must force himself in order to avoid Allah’s punishment as it is an obligation upon him.

If adornment is very much limited for men then how can a wife enjoy her husband?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Oct

ANSWER: He should keep oral and physical hygiene, wear clean and fresh clothes, perfume himself so that the wife is pleased when he is around. Does she also want him to wear makeup and lipstick?

Sheikh, my que is, my wife is pregnant and she is not taking pills which are mandatory in pregnancy. When I remind her she always says i will take it later,and she miss the pills for that day though i remind her two times in a day. What should be done? What kind of person she is as per islam?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Sep

ANSWER: When a woman is pregnant, she has hormonal imbalances, mood swings etc, so treat her with love and patience. She is not sinful for not taking such supplements. Maybe if you bring it to her with a glass of water she would feel loved and cared for and would take it. Tell her mother […]

Can a husband record the arguments between him and his wife and make there family listen to it as they live separately??

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

08 Sep

ANSWER: Of course not! This is prohibited spying and backbiting. Allah has said that spouses are eachother’s garments!

I and my husband both have good jobs. He is asking me to spend my money on our house whilst he is spending on his parents( which he claims). My salary account is joint account and his is personal. I know Islamically it’s the man’s duty to spend on me. 1) How can I tell him gently that I don’t want to spend my money and want him to spend on me.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

19 Aug

ANSWER: Make him understand that along with his parents you are also his responsibility after the marriage and he should fulfill all your financial needs as he will be questioned about this in the hereafter. Give him references from the Quran and Sunnah in a polite manner and make dua for him to understand this. […]

Actually i recently got married and had to come back to my hometown because of some unfinished duties so my husband and I are having a long distance relationship,he gets mad if I don’t check his messages immediately and claims I don’t really care about him and tried to fight without understanding my reasoning.I try to always see it positively but its affecting me mentally

Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Aug

ANSWER: You should take it in a positive way that he is very keen to have your attention. There are ladies who cry saying that their husband doesn’t want to have any contact with them through the day. You can send him messages from your side before he sends any to show him that you […]

I feel very depressed as my husband is not regular with his prayers. Even if he prays, I’m not sure if it’s accepted because he is just too quick with it. How do I explain him about the importance of salah as he is short tempered? Sometimes he even misses Friday prayers.

Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer

04 Aug

ANSWER: If you have children in the house, you can address them and teach them about the importance of prayer and the great reward of perfecting it while he is listening and this would be indirect advice.

I’m 33 years old housewife and a mother of a two years old son.I am happily married but the problem is whenever my husband get upset on me he threats to give divorce or told me to get out from his house.and its constantly happening for 7 years. But nowadays I’m getting sick of such behavior. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

02 Aug

ANSWER: Whenever he does such a thing, you should make him feel that such a threat is not going to pass well by giving him the silent treatment where you show him that you are hurt and not willing to let it pass, though you are doing all of your chores as usual by cooking […]

Sheikh if my husband wants to be intimate and i reject him politely for any reason, and he is okay with it would i still be sinful and cursed by angels? even though he says its fine?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

20 Jul

ANSWER: If he is fine with it, you are not sinful. Praise be to Allaah. If a woman refuses her husband’s request to come to bed with no Islamically-sound reason (such as sickness, or his being drunk, for example), what happens is as described below: Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The […]

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