ANSWER:
May Allah ease all your affairs and give you the best in both worlds.
Fear Allah and don’t hit your child as he is innocent and you can’t blame him for your shortcomings and that of your husband. Stop calling your husband for few months and don’t even text him so that he would feel your distance and initiate communication. When you are throwing yourself like this on his feet, either you had done or said something really hurtful to him or he is arrogant and wants to discipline you because he knows how much you love him! Have your dignity and don’t go overboard with such love when someone is not reciprocating. Reduce and limit your feelings and learn how to harness it.