9 Safar 1442

Kind Treatment of Spouses

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Sep 13th, 2020
ANSWER: When a woman is pregnant, she has hormonal imbalances, mood swings etc, so treat her with love and patience. She is not sinful for not taking s...
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Sep 8th, 2020
ANSWER: Of course not! This is prohibited spying and backbiting.  Allah has said that spouses are eachother’s garments!...
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Aug 19th, 2020
ANSWER: Make him understand that along with his parents you are also his responsibility after the marriage and he should fulfill all your financial nee...
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Aug 13th, 2020
ANSWER: You should take it in a positive way that he is very keen to have your attention.  There are ladies who cry saying that their husband doesn...
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Aug 4th, 2020
ANSWER: If you have children in the house, you can address them and teach them about the importance of prayer and the great reward of perfecting it whi...
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Aug 2nd, 2020
ANSWER: Whenever he does such a thing, you should make him feel that such a threat is not going to pass well by giving him the silent treatment where y...
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Jul 20th, 2020
ANSWER: If he is fine with it, you are not sinful. Praise be to Allaah. If a woman refuses her husband’s request to come to bed with no Islamically-s...
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Jun 13th, 2020
ANSWER: No problem in massaging the feet of a spouse....
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May 3rd, 2020
ANSWER: You need to be more realistic and logical! If he is providing for you and he is respectful and tries to make you happy but fails to express his...
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Apr 30th, 2020
ANSWER: You are not his mother! You must not force him in learning duaa that are not mandatory. You can only advise him when he is in good mood as suc...
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Apr 3rd, 2020
ANSWER: If he didn’t divorce you yet, you are still his wife. He is obliged to give you the back pay of the past 3 years for your maintenance and...
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Mar 24th, 2020
ANSWER: It would be oppression on you if he were to leave you with them while abroad! He can’t be obeying the parents when it comes to taking you...
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Mar 13th, 2020
ANSWER: It is not your obligation to make his mother happy. If you do that out of your own good will, this is rewardable and a good deed.  He can̵...
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Mar 10th, 2020
ANSWER: Your mother is transgressing against your wife and she has no power or control over her. It is obvious she wants to enslave her.  If you are a...
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Feb 19th, 2020
ANSWER: You are not obliged to spend on yourself, let alone your husband! It is his responsibility to look after you and not vice versa. With wives li...
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Feb 14th, 2020
ANSWER: You must not spend anything. You must not give any money to your husband. It is his responsibility to take care of you and to provide for...
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Feb 14th, 2020
ANSWER: Most women lose their virginity due to playing sports or riding bicycles etc.  Other girls don’t break the hymen from the first few atte...
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Feb 12th, 2020
ANSWER: As long as she is not denying you your marital rights, this is sufficient as she is only required to lay there while you do your thing! You can...
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Feb 2nd, 2020
ANSWER: You are not obliged to contribute as this is his responsibility. Once you open the door for contribution, he will always ask you to do so in ev...
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Jan 14th, 2020
ANSWER: No, as most disputes and fights happen over money.  Both should keep and maintain separate accounts....