29 Jumada al-Thani 1441

Kind Treatment of Spouses

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Feb 19th, 2020
ANSWER: You are not obliged to spend on yourself, let alone your husband! It is his responsibility to look after you and not vice versa. With wives li...
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Feb 14th, 2020
ANSWER: You must not spend anything. You must not give any money to your husband. It is his responsibility to take care of you and to provide for...
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Feb 14th, 2020
ANSWER: Most women lose their virginity due to playing sports or riding bicycles etc.  Other girls don’t break the hymen from the first few atte...
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Feb 12th, 2020
ANSWER: As long as she is not denying you your marital rights, this is sufficient as she is only required to lay there while you do your thing! You can...
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Feb 2nd, 2020
ANSWER: You are not obliged to contribute as this is his responsibility. Once you open the door for contribution, he will always ask you to do so in ev...
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Jan 14th, 2020
ANSWER: No, as most disputes and fights happen over money.  Both should keep and maintain separate accounts....
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Dec 29th, 2019
ANSWER: She is not like any other person! The kinder he is to her the better a muslim he is at the sight of Allah.   ...
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Dec 26th, 2019
ANSWER: You married her after being given the opportunity to see her. You must fear Allah; how would you feel if someone married your sister, aunt or d...
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Dec 13th, 2019
ANSWER: You must try to be the person he seeks his tranquility in. Try to create a loving atmosphere around him at all times, praise and appreciate him...
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Nov 25th, 2019
ANSWER: Marriages that are not based on Islam often face such problems and solving them is quite difficult as there is no focal point to refer to.  Ta...
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Nov 20th, 2019
ANSWER: If you make it a competition between his mother and you, most likely he will choose her as a man can marry up to four wives at a time but he o...
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Nov 12th, 2019
ANSWER: He must not believe or accuse her of such things unless he can provide 4 male witnesses who can testify to seeing the penetration with their ow...
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Nov 3rd, 2019
ANSWER: Get his parents and siblings involved at least to provide for you and the children as this is their responsibility. If you are in a country tha...
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Nov 3rd, 2019
ANSWER: There is nothing here to help you in! You need to communicate with your husband and ask him either to stop her from that or to allow you to rea...
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Oct 28th, 2019
ANSWER: She must take medical reports from the hospital proving such domestic violence. With such reports, she must warn him that she will call the pol...
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Sep 18th, 2019
ANSWER: He has no right in asking you to work. Allah has given this responsibility solely to men just as it is your duty to look after the house, your ...
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Sep 7th, 2019
ANSWER: This is not a legitimate reason for not taking the kids. It is his responsibility and he need to man up and do his duties....
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Aug 7th, 2019
ANSWER: Color and beauty is just skin deep and what really matters is if he’s a practicing Muslim who provides for you and the kids.  You must b...
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Jul 17th, 2019
ANSWER: No, the husband has no right in commanding her to serve his parents as he has no right in asking her to stand on one leg for an hour for exampl...
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Jul 13th, 2019
ANSWER: The wife is not obliged to babysit her husband’s nephews.  However, she must handle this situation in a more mature way than fighting wi...