Fiqh of Marriage

I am unmarried 30 years of age girl. I always wanted to marry as early as possible. Now I think i am not fit for marriage & I should not try for it.when i see my friends/cousins all married I feel that is because they are better muslims & my sins are greater than them. I also feel i am not a responsible person mayb to be married so should not look any more.

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Jun

ANSWER: Everything happens with Allah’s will and this was destined to happen 50 thousand years before the creation of the heavens and the earth so you need to have complete reliance and faith in Allah and pray and hope that Allah will get you married to a practicing brother soon. You must not despair of […]

My question is that My Husband doesn’t pray on time. Even if I keep reminding him,he gets angry and we end up fighting. How do I explain it to him that it is really important to pray on time?

Fiqh of Marriage, Prayer

07 Jun

ANSWER: If he doesn’t pray at all and not even one fard though you tell him and warn him, you must not stay with him at all. If he prays on and off, keep on reminding him with diplomacy and wisdom.

A mother wants to know if the income from working in a tobacco company would be halal. She has received a proposal for her daughter. The boy is an engineer from a renowned university and the rest of the family is also educated.

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Jun

ANSWER: If the potential suitor himself works in a tobacco company, his earnings are not halal and she must not accept such a proposal.

The question is according to Sharia for how much time a husband can live far from her wife if he works somewhere else.Here some scholars say that he can not live more than 40 days some say 4 months and if they donot have intercourse in that period the marriage is nullified automatically.Please explain acc.to Sharia.

Fiqh of Marriage

22 May

ANSWER: There is no limit for such conditions and the marriage does not get nullified in such a way until they divorce each other. Out of necessity he can stay far from his wife as long as there is mutual consent.

We’re married for 7yrs and since last year he always abuses my parents with Ill words and always say he will not attend to any of our family gatherings my parents were so supportive in many means in our difficulties Is it permissible for me to speak against him when he scolds it hurts me so much my 4 yrs son struggles to support me I fear his future would be spoilt by this quarreling help.

Fiqh of Marriage

22 May

ANSWER: Such people are only interested in making you react negatively in response to their verbal abuse and humiliation. Once you respond, they become happy for depressing you. You must turn the table on them by NOT Defending yourself to his verbal abuse at all NOT EVEN with a single word.You must not also argue with […]

My father says he cannot let me marry outside family and go far. that our’family’is how I stay close to him and its only good and others do not live like us with respect and togetherness.I recieved a proposal and I find it suitable for me.want to marry him too.i dont want to marry my cousin dt my father wants me to.Father isnt agreeing. I am 23.dont want to fall into sins.what do I do?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 May

ANSWER: He cannot force you to marry anyone without your consent and also there’s no marriage without his consent. Talk to your mother and tell her about your wish and let her talk to your father in a wise and mature manner and in Sha Allah he will agree if this guy is a practicing […]

Can I keep the lights turn on during intimacy with wife or light is prohibited?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 May

ANSWER: No problem in this whatsoever.

I am 23 years old.I have been in a relationship with someone since 6 years.now i want to marry him & he also wants to marry me.but my mother doesn’t want me to marry with this person.And for this reason she haven’t informed my father about my relationship still now. And my mother forcefully wants me to leave the relationship.how can i convince my parents?please help me.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

14 May

ANSWER: First of all you have to repent sincerely for this haram relationship, and you must stop communicating with this Guy immediately, the guy must propose to your father, if your father doesn’t agree then you can’t marry against his will.

Sir,affair is not permitted in islam its a major sin.. Then my ques is, in arranged marriege is it possible to love a stranger?how can i know that before marriege? Isnt it a risk?

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

06 May

ANSWER: Of course it is possible! Not only that, most marriages in Muslim families are arranged and the spouses develop love to one another throughout their marriage.

Is it permissible to marry your daughter to a good boy who is working in IT department of a credit card company, if everything is ok?

Fiqh of Marriage, Jobs

06 May

ANSWER: No, this is not permissible as his job is haram because of it being in the credit card company.

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