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Such people are only interested in making you react negatively in response to their verbal abuse and humiliation. Once you respond, they become happy for depressing you. You must turn the table on them by NOT Defending yourself to his verbal abuse at all NOT EVEN with a single word.You must not also argue with him over anything at all. Let him talk and talk without a response from you except a big smile on your face. This will kill him slowly but eventually, he will stop because he feels silly and ignored.   

We’re married for 7yrs and since last year he always abuses my parents with Ill words and always say he will not attend to any of our family gatherings my parents were so supportive in many means in our difficulties Is it permissible for me to speak against him when he scolds it hurts me so much my 4 yrs son struggles to support me I fear his future would be spoilt by this quarreling help.

Fiqh of Marriage | May 22, 2019 5:27 am
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My father says he cannot let me marry outside family and go far. that our’family’is how I stay close to him and its only good and others do not live like us with respect and togetherness.I recieved a proposal and I find it suitable for me.want to marry him too.i dont want to marry my cousin dt my father wants me to.Father isnt agreeing. I am 23.dont want to fall into sins.what do I do?
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The question is according to Sharia for how much time a husband can live far from her wife if he works somewhere else.Here some scholars say that he can not live more than 40 days some say 4 months and if they donot have intercourse in that period the marriage is nullified automatically.Please explain acc.to Sharia.