Fiqh of Marriage

Married for 14 yrs.Husb gave nafkah only for 1st year of marriage&stop till today.Reminded him its a must to give wife nafkah but he didn’t care.He went for counselling with an ustadz but still refuses to give nafkah.I’ve been working 14 years&all my money is used to help him with kids&financial.Once in 3 months I’ll take abit from my salary to buy my necessaties.What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Feb

ANSWER: You must not spend anything. You must not give any money to your husband. It is his responsibility to take care of you and to provide for you and your children. You can take him to court if he has money and refuses to give.

If I am married to a woman who is not virgin but was regarded to be virgin before the marriage what should I do? Should I inform her family that she was not virgin or should I keep it a secret and continue with the marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Feb

ANSWER: Most women lose their virginity due to playing sports or riding bicycles etc. Other girls don’t break the hymen from the first few attempts. Therefore, one must not be haste and assume things that have no basis to it. You have sisters and would have daughters in the future.

I’m recently married yet unhappy about the marriage as she can’t satisfy me sexually.She gets tired very fast due to her obesity.I couldn’t make out her physical appearance well during my visit to her home before marriage as her obesity wasn’t obvious from external look.But because of intimacy issues between us,I’m losing interest in her.Due to this,I’m afraid of getting attracted to other girls.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

12 Feb

ANSWER: As long as she is not denying you your marital rights, this is sufficient as she is only required to lay there while you do your thing! You can advise her to lose weight with good manners and wisdom if her weight bothers you. Remember that you are also not Mr. perfect! You are […]

A habitual adulterer husband continues in adultery. Advises from pious parents, elders&very pious wife did not bring change.They have one daughter&a son. Disgusted with the habit of husband,his pious wife is seeking divorce. Both sides grand parents are disturbed because of the future of grandchildren.In the interest of children, should the wife be advised not to seek divorce & bear with husband?

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage

05 Feb

ANSWER: If he is as described, she should leave such an evil person and take the children to raise them up as good practicing muslims.

I am a 27 year old revert and I would like to get married, Inshallah. I’m not sure how to go about this as I don’t have Muslim family or know Muslim brothers. Can you please advise?

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Feb

ANSWER: You need to be patient as Allah will send you someone suitable in Sha Allah. Speak to your mahram relatives, to your Muslim colleagues and to the Islamic center near you. You can also post your information without a photo on Islamic matrimonial sites. Make a lot of duaa and trust and depend on Allah.

I recently opened a joint bank account with my husband and have deposited all my personal savings into this account. When I want to use some of this money to spend, my husband doesn’t allow it. Even though I tell him I’m removing my contribution only and not his share of the savings. Does my husband have the right to do this?

Fiqh of Marriage

31 Jan

ANSWER: He is sinful and has no right in doing this. He must give her back all what she owns and let her open her own back account which he has no control over as this is her money! It was her mistake from the beginning to allow him to know what she possesses!

There is a medicine, if wife eats this within three days after sex it will interrupt the sperm to take baby, is it parmissible to eat?

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Jan

ANSWER: No problem in this.

Shaikh when choosing to marry someone who a had bad past means was a very bad person but in present means since 2-3 years is a very good person connected to deen not missing any salah, so what should we do in such situation?

Fiqh of Marriage

25 Jan

ANSWER: If he’s actually become practicing and committed to the deen with correct aqeedah then no problem in getting married to him.

Do you think one day Allah might ask a person why he/she continues to stay with a bad person with Muslim faith( ex: even after advising:- they barely do salaat,they mix with the non mahram very well, they follow rules suited to them only,they watch porn even their spouse fulfill their desires, they are very attached to this world beauty… meaning more bad things than good)? Or will we b rewarded?

Fiqh of Marriage

05 Jan

ANSWER: This depends on a number of factors: 1.Does she have a better alternative or after divorce she will regret it because she can’t afford to survive financially or is unable to find anyone else to marry her and fulfil her needs as a human being. 2.Is her Iman increasing, decreasing or is it status […]

Sheikh my husband is in abroad he wants to come and before coming he wants to make sure That I accept anal sex,he says that I dnt love him or trust him if I dnt allow,I never imagine that he would say someday something like that,he is saying that he loves so much my back that he can’t stop from him self,I insist that Allah prohibited such acts from husband to do it to his wife,tel me what to do

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

01 Jan

ANSWER: Anal sex is one of the major sins in Islam and Allah has cursed those who do it! If he forces her to do this, she must refuse and resist and if needed, threaten him to expose him to his parents and your relatives and that you will obtain medical records to prove that […]

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