Fiqh of Marriage

sheikh I wanted to ask my husband does not spend on me like on my clothing etc so my father invested my money which he gave me in business I get profit frm it n I make my expenses from that ?so now 1 yaers is left n tht machinery wud be outdated in which I hav invested my question is can I do job to fulfill my needs because my husband gives money to his mother sister n spend

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Nov

ANSWER: Your husband must cover your necessary needs, you don’t have to work. But if he allows you to work and the job is halal with no free mixing, this is permissible but it doesn’t relieve him from the obligation to provide for you.

I got a proposal for marriage from some1 i knw,He is a buisness man works in a halal way but he is less educated than me.I am afraid if my parents will accept him or refuse his proposal based on his education level.My question to u is,If i being more educated than him will effect the marriage?Please guide me to this situation on what basis i shall choose.

Fiqh of Marriage

30 Oct

ANSWER: First of all, you must not be in contact with anyone before marriage like this as any type of communication with a non mahram is prohibited and sinful. Secondly, education is just a certificate that people get from school or university that has no significance except in maybe finding a job. It doesn’t mean […]

Sheikh, I am currently endgaged to a Qari and Hafiz-e-Quran but I don’t think that I deserve to be married to him because I have committed Zina many times. Any advice for me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Oct

ANSWER: As long as you have sincerely repented to Allah and you are away from such heinous major sins now and blocked all means that would lead you astray again, you can get married to him and be a good, dutiful wife. You must not ever tell a single person about your sins, not even […]

Sheikh, is it permissible to use all these matrimony websites that claim to be Muslim match making sites? What is the ruling for displaying pictures and putting oneself out there. Marriage has become difficult these days.

Fiqh of Marriage

25 Oct

ANSWER: It’s permissible if these are muslim matrimonial websites that work according to sharia, like no exchange of female photos and no meeting between potential suitors without the girl’s male mahram and no private chatting between potential suitors etc.

Prior to my second marriage, do i have to tell my prospective second wife about my first wife and that she would be my second wife?

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Oct

ANSWER: You must not conceal the fact that you married or you will be cheating them.

I’m a man, do my parents have the right to regulate who my future wife is? If I marry my own choice, and they don’t approve, do I lose the reward of Birrul Walidain?

Fiqh of Marriage

28 Sep

ANSWER: A man does not need anyone’s permission to get married except the permission of the girls father (wali). However, it’s best if you try and convince your parents before getting married.

I would like to ask if is it okay to freeze my eggs and do in vitro fertilizatiom since I habe no husband and I want to have kids of my own. Currently, I am unable to marry because my parents require big dowry from the man, which I fervently oppose to, but I can’t voice it out strongly. Is it okay as a last resort? Thank you.

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Sep

ANSWER: This is absolutely prohibited. IVF is only permissible when the eggs and the womb are of the wife and the sperm is of her husband and its not permissible to get pregnant when you’re not married!! If you are parents are delaying your marriage for such a reason, you can go to the muslim […]

Is it compulsory the waleema and it’s full expense has to taken by the groom and his family or is it permissible for the bride’s family to share the waleema expense,if it is permissible kindly please mention any hadith to support the answer

Fiqh of Marriage

18 Sep

ANSWER: It is the groom’s responsibility to conduct the waleema. However, if the bride’s side wants to invite their guests and they want to contribute in the expenses then there’s no problem in it.

My cousin has a family.About four years ago she started to chat with a man.After some days they started chatting continuously. My sister didn’t know that the guy had feelings for her. After knowing that she wanted to stop chatting. But the guy gave her a thread to commit suicide and he tried once.He knows her husband’s home&phone number.How can she be save

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

15 Sep

ANSWER: She is sinful for betraying her husband and talking to non-mahram men behind her husband’s back! She must break off all communication with him by blocking his number and repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity for having anything to do with him in the first place while making a lot of […]

A Muslim man is having a happy married life and a loving family. However,he wants to have a second wife because he believes he can do justice to both of them as per Islamic norms.But his first wife doesn’t agree to his request. So, can he get married again keeping the second marriage secret from the first wife. The second wife and her family will be aware of his first marriage and family.

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Sep

ANSWER: This is permissible, however it’s not recommended as the man would have to lie to his first wife about his whereabouts when he’s at his second wife’s house and it’s a major sin to lie. And the problems would escalate when he has children with his second wife and more so if he dies […]

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