Fiqh of Marriage

My mother knows all about nikaah but still she is delaying my nikaah what should i do so that I can protect myself.. I am 28now

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

05 Jun

ANSWER: If she is delaying in getting you married, speak to a sibling or an aunt to help persuade your father to do so.

if someone committed zina and she repented to Allah and after that she got married now if her husband ask about it and bring Quran between them and ask that swear on Quran that you have never done any zina or if he says to swear on Allah r her parents then should she commit her sin that may break her marriage.?

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

30 May

ANSWER: He is sinful to ask and she must not tell him and must act offended and angry and demand that she goes to her father’s house for such an insult! She shouldn’t accept any question about such a thing.

Sheikh, can I visit a woman for the purpose of marriage in a public place, without the wali as she is a revert? This will be the first meeting with her to get to know her and will be very formal. (The public place would be either a coffee shop, or some other place which is crowded), if we feel there is compatbility we can arrange her wali to be present for a more in

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

28 May

ANSWER: This is called dating! You must not have any communication with her as she is a total stranger to you. Approach her Muslim wali for her hand in marriage. If she doesn’t have one, the Muslim judge or the authorized Imam of the Islamic center becomes her Wali.

I got married unwillingly am not happy in my marriage despite having everything I want to leave my husband and will give him all his mahr..is it a sin to leave someone you are not happy with?

Fiqh of Marriage

09 Apr

ANSWER: There should be a valid reason for separation otherwise you are sinful for it. It is like Allah sending you favors and blessing and you choose instead to kick it with your feet.

Should a girl be in proper wadhu and without makeup when she has nikah?

Beautification & Cosmetic Suregry, Fiqh of Marriage, Women clothing

05 Apr

ANSWER: There is no requirement for being in wudhu. As for make up, if she is going to be seen by non mahram, this is totally prohibited. But if it is between her and her mahram and other women, there is nothing wrong in wearing it before or after the marriage contract.

Sheikh, my husband left me and our kids for almost 3years, no words from him or his family. Then he came back later and said he was sorry, though his mother never wanted us to be married, she controls him and now he said he wants us to be a family again, and my parents have said they are no more in support of the marriage that I should seek divorce frm him and he refuse.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

03 Apr

ANSWER: If he didn’t divorce you yet, you are still his wife. He is obliged to give you the back pay of the past 3 years for your maintenance and child support of your children. After he does this, you can discuss whether you want to continue in this marriage or not! You need to […]

My husband currently is int’l student in a different country.I live in different country. When he finishes his study then I will sponsor him.My question is he knew I was working before and he was fine with it.now he’s saying if I work without his permission,it’s as if I eat pork.He doesn’t provide me anything.I understand he’s a student.but I need money For rent/ school. Allowed?

Fiqh of Marriage

31 Mar

ANSWER: You should have stipulated a condition that you work in your marriage contract. You are not allowed to work without his permission after marriage and you are not allowed to leave the house without his permission. However, if he doesn’t provide for you, you are not obliged to obey him and you can also […]

How can a Muslim woman interact with a man who lives overseas and is a potential spouse.with mahram but what should she ask him or talk about? Can she directly ask whether he is a practicing Muslim or it will be too offensive?

Fiqh of Marriage

25 Mar

ANSWER: She has one interview that should be done physically in the presence of her mahram where they sit together and chitchat to see if there is any chemistry between them or not. During such interview, she can check diplomatically about his views on praying in the masjid, hijab, who his favorite scholars are and […]

What is your advice on marrying an atheist that is willing to convert to islam ? What is your experience with people doing this sort of marriages , is it worth it because I’m not Allah and i cannot question a converts islam but i feel like i can’t be as safe as marrying a muslim woman…. even if i i don’t have chemistry for her(the muslim woman)

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Mar

ANSWER: Willing to convert to Islam doesn’t make one a Muslim, taking the Shahadah and practicing the religion makes one a Muslim. If she didn’t do that till now and she is waiting for you to give her the green light, this means that she is not interested in Islam and after marriage and probably […]

I am looking for marriage and I have talked to some sisters online and also in person. When speaking online, is it allowed to have pictures of yourself, so the other person can know what you look like? Is a mahram required even if it’s only texting?

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Mar

ANSWER: It’s not allowed to share your photos directly to the girl as you are not sending with a female relative of your family. It’s not permissible to communicate with a non-mahram woman via any social media platform even if you intend to marry her. You must do that through her father after you propose to […]

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