ANSWER:

If he didn’t divorce you yet, you are still his wife.

He is obliged to give you the back pay of the past 3 years for your maintenance and child support of your children.

After he does this, you can discuss whether you want to continue in this marriage or not!

You need to weigh the pros and cons before making a decision. 

Sheikh, my husband left me and our kids for almost 3years, no words from him or his family. Then he came back later and said he was sorry, though his mother never wanted us to be married, she controls him and now he said he wants us to be a family again, and my parents have said they are no more in support of the marriage that I should seek divorce frm him and he refuse.