Fiqh of Marriage

I’m getting married next summer Insha’Allah and I know and agree that it’s haram to have music, dancing, free mixing and such things at the wedding but my relatives and groom and his family think it’s not a big deal and insist on having that kind of party. I’m afraid that they will pressure me and guilt me into accepting it. What should I do or say to avoid this?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

06 Aug

ANSWER: You must not agree to this. You can threaten not to attend your own wedding if they insist on doing this. You need to hold your grounds and be steadfast and not compromise your deen.

We moved to Australia 5 yrs ago,it was my husbands decision,he has always asked my dad to support us-he made my father sell his property,help us buy house here & help settle. now my hsbnd wants to go back but my dad says it’s very foolish wasting all money-and he says if you go back now I will not support you settle again-now.we can’t afford going back on our own- what should I do

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Aug

ANSWER: Your father is not obliged to help your husband. It is your husband’s responsibility and not your father’s. It is obvious that your husband is irresponsible and anyone with dignity would not do such things and expect others to help him. This is called begging!

I’m 33 years old housewife and a mother of a two years old son.I am happily married but the problem is whenever my husband get upset on me he threats to give divorce or told me to get out from his house.and its constantly happening for 7 years. But nowadays I’m getting sick of such behavior. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

02 Aug

ANSWER: Whenever he does such a thing, you should make him feel that such a threat is not going to pass well by giving him the silent treatment where you show him that you are hurt and not willing to let it pass, though you are doing all of your chores as usual by cooking […]

I am from Bangladesh. In our country cousins can be married, but it is haraam to marry a cousin’s daughter and this marriage is not allowed anywhere in the society. If anyone wants to prove it halal, he has to be humiliated in the family and expelled from the society. My question to you is, is this marriage forbidden in Islam? Note that in our country, cousin’s daughter

Fiqh of Marriage, Mahram

29 Jul

ANSWER: These people are not following Islam. Ali Ibn Abi Taalib May Allah be pleased with him married his cousin’s daughter; Fatima the daughter of the prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam. Surely your people are ignorant and are not related to proper Islam, otherwise they wouldn’t have rejected something our beloved Prophet salla Allahu […]

Medical science says that cousin marriage doubles the chance of birth defects..and islam doesn’t encourage to do anything that is harmful. Then why is cousin marriage allowed in islam?!..Do cousin sisters are to be dressed same as non-mahrams in front of cousin brothers?! Even the first cousins cant be normal brother and sister?

Fiqh of Marriage

23 Jul

ANSWER: This is absolutely nonsense in Islam! People have cousins married with the healthiest of children and people have strangers married with disabilities! The Prophet Mohammad sallallahu Alehi wassalm married his cousin Zainab and he gave his daughter Fatima to his cousin Ali May Allah be pleased with them all.

Sheikh if my husband wants to be intimate and i reject him politely for any reason, and he is okay with it would i still be sinful and cursed by angels? even though he says its fine?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

20 Jul

ANSWER: If he is fine with it, you are not sinful. Praise be to Allaah. If a woman refuses her husband’s request to come to bed with no Islamically-sound reason (such as sickness, or his being drunk, for example), what happens is as described below: Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The […]

I want to get married to avoid Haram. I am agree with a proposal but my family keeps rejecting many proposals for some reasons. Now I want to ask how can I make my family agree upon current proposal ? Is there any Dua? Or deed that can melts their hearts towards willingness on this proposal.i am so worry. I am doing istekhara and Dua,s

Fiqh of Marriage, Supplications

19 Jul

ANSWER: You can ask a friendly sibling or an aunt to talk to your parents and explain that you are happy with the proposal. There’s no specific dua mentioned, just make general dua during times of acceptance, such as in salah in your sujood, in the last tashahud, before making salam, between Adhan and iqama, during the last third of […]

I was listening to a Molvi who was delivering lesson about marriage. He said that a woman with barakah is one who easily get engaged, or married. I am wondering that I find it difficult to get married, I mean my parents are looking for someone from last two years still they couldn’t find a good spouse for me. Even my sister who is married taunts me about this and my parents are

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Jul

ANSWER: This is baseless and nonsense. Keep your hopes up and make Dua sincerely that Allah grants you a righteous spouse. Make dua during times of acceptance, such as in salah in your sujood, in the last tashahud, before making salam, between Adhan and iqama, during the last third of the night, begging Allah until He opens […]

Sir, my unmarried friend says she thinks she may have broken her hymen due to the secret habit which she developed after an abuse in childhood.Her parents are seeking proposals for her,what is the ruling on concealment of this matter and how to avoid bad consequences? Should the to-husband be informed? How to deal with this matter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Masturbation

14 Jul

ANSWER: Bleeding before the marriage is normal. Most women break their hymen due to playing sports or riding bicycles etc. Other girls don’t break the hymen from the first few attempts. She must repent for the bad habits she had. She must not bring this up and never mention it to anyone or be concerned about it.

In my country a system of dowry prevails where bride’s family has to give groom furniture,bedding,electrical appliances,utensils,crockery and other household items.But when it comes to mahr an amount is fixed verbally which is never given in reality.If a girl wants mahr then also it is not given.It is given only in case of divorce.So will the marriage be valid without mahr?

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage

13 Jul

ANSWER: The marriage is valid, however the man is sinful for not paying off the mahr and he is also sinful for accepting a dowry like Hindus! Men must fear Allah’s punishment and should be ashamed of themselves for being like this!

More..