Fiqh of Marriage

When my husband gets angry abt stuff he starts yelling, curses me,my parents & family with the worst profanity(sometimes my parents n his r in room) i often stay quiet but sometimes i cant take d abuse against my parents n i say d same back about his. He says i will not enter Jannah because i am disrespectful and he is not happy with me. Do i hv to quietly hear d abuse? He says he wont stop.

Fiqh of Marriage

05 Mar

ANSWER: He is sinful for speaking without knowledge by saying you would not enter Jannah! Such people are only interested in making you react negatively in response to their verbal abuse and humiliation. Once you respond, they become happy for depressing you. You must turn the table on them by NOT Defending yourself to his […]

I am currently 19, turning 20 In Sha’Allah, and have an interest in getting married. However, my parents do not have any intention of getting me married as I am too young and haven’t completed my college degree yet. I am fearful that if I talk to them about this, they will not understand me and tell me that I’m too young. Please advise me.

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Mar

ANSWER: You may tell your sibling or a friendly aunt who can convey your message to your parents suitably so that they look for a spouse for you.

I am divorced,I have a 10 year old son from my previous marriage.My ex has never fulfilled his duties as a father.He chose his career over us.Hes a doctor and hes still not giving child support.I understand it’s my sons right but what if we dont want it n just leave it.would me and my current husband be answerable to Allah swt for that. My current husband loves him alot.

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage

03 Mar

ANSWER: Your current husband is not obliged to support your son as this is the duty of his biological father. You have the right to take your ex to court to demand that he pay child support but may choose not to do this and you are not sinful for that. Your ex is the […]

I am 33.All my sistrs are married in rich families. bcz of my passing age might be due to elder sists got marry late, my parents now want to accept proposal for me a boy earning not well,living in village,

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Mar

ANSWER: If he is a pious and a religious person earning enough to provide you food and shelter then you must accept this proposal as the supply is far greater then the demand and it is better to marry such a person than to stay unmarried or to get a proposal from someone who is 60 […]

One of my friend sold the gold received as mehr without informing her husband nd gave that amount as loan to her friend who was in urgent need of money. Now she has to buy that gold again before her husband ( he lives in another city)comes back. Can I help her in this or this would be a sin as she has not informed her husband.

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Feb

ANSWER: She is not sinful for selling without informing her husband as the gold belongs to her and she can do whatever she wants with it. No problem in helping her to buy gold again though it might be best to open an Islamic bank account and invest the cash with them so that no […]

I was in a Haram relationship before. We also had a physical relationship. But now I have left it all. because my parents cannot agree for our marriage. If my coming husband question about my past then what I do???

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

26 Feb

ANSWER: You must sincerely repent for this and show deep remorse. You must not disclose your past sins to any soul as Allah has concealed them. If you are asked about this by any suitor then behave as if you are very much offended by such questions and act in an angry way for such […]

I’veheardsome scholars say thatafter getting married ifyou don’t changeyour lineage and use yourhusbands name afteryour name thenthis is permissible.My name do not include’bint” in it so if I don’t put myhusbands name then people who don’tknow that I’ve changedmy name will consider me the wife of my father bcz not always useMrs.If it is not permissiblethen plz send refe Ican show the proof to husb

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

25 Feb

ANSWER: In Islam it is not permissible to remove your father’s name and use your husband’s name after the marriage, let alone what people think in society. As a female is always recognised by her father’s name and not her husband’s name.

Sheik,my brother did nikah without telling us to a woman who has already a child with another man.He had haram relationship with her,the parents went ahead and did nikah without my parents knowing. Is the nikka valid? Is my brother a mahram to the child who isn’t his? My parents and i don’t accept this relationship as my brother doesn’t work. His wife n child will be dependent on my dad.advise plz

Fiqh of Marriage

23 Feb

ANSWER: A man does not need anyone’s permission to get married. The nikah is valid if there is nothing to nullify it! It is your father’s money and he has the right not to give his son money if he doesn’t want to.

Please enlighten me with “who has more right on a girl ones she is nikkahfied , The husband or her parents ? If under any circumstances she is to make a choice whom should she choose ? Her parents or her husband ? Allah will question her about who’s right ? The parents or the husband ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

21 Feb

ANSWER: She is required to be dutiful towards her husband and her parents. If a conflict of interest were to arise, she must give priority to her husband providing she lives with him. If she lives under her father’s roof, her father is her guardian and she must obey him however, she must be diplomatic and not offend or disobey her […]

I am a woman in polygamy the last wife of 3 wives. I recently got married and didn’t know my husband is struggling financially. I’m responsible for my upkeep 100% and do give my husband money from time to time. I have some savings and willing to forfeit them for him to pursue a new career which in sha Allah will benefit us all. However, I’m scared of what the future would be.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

19 Feb

ANSWER: You are not obliged to spend on yourself, let alone your husband! It is his responsibility to look after you and not vice versa. With wives like you, he wouldn’t have to work as long as he has “sugar mommy”!

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