Fiqh of Marriage

Is there a rule/permission in Islam where the parents can have their son/daughter get talaq done? Ex, if a mother doesn’t want her son to marry someone out of the race and he yet still marries her with the bride’s guardians approval, can the mother of the groom bring sheikh or etc and have them get divorced without the couple wanting to get divorced anyway?

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

07 Jun

ANSWER: Of course not! They must stay out of their son’s life and fear Allah.

My husband doesn’t like me to have hobbies. He allowed me gardening 2 hours a day, but even so he reproaches me for that, as he says house in not tidy enough for his likings. He demands ideal house, everything even in drawers arranged in perfect way, as he is perfectionist. And I am not, I keep house clean, but not ideal. Am I allowed in Islam to have 2 hrs gardening even if house is not perfect?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

02 Jun

ANSWER: Such things are not clear black and white as you are supposed to have what is normally accepted in the society as a clean and tidy house. You are not obliged to make it in an obsessed way like he wants you to. Try to be diplomatic and demand from him as well things […]

Sheikh i heard that a boy and a girl can talk to each other without being Engaged if their family knows and they are serious & want to marry and a mufti appove it .is it true?(if girl’s parent’s doesn’t know about that he is talking to him?)

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

30 May

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited even if they are engaged!! Stop listening to this so called mufti!

About Divorce and second marriage: Sheikh, If a man love a woman and wanted to marry her but his parents not allowed him to get marry to that woman and forced him to get marry with other woman. So that he left that woman whom he love and get married other woman and after few months he feels not attracted by his wife and he wanted to go back to that woman whom he loved, so in this situation what he have to do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

29 May

ANSWER: He should have been Man enough to put his foot down and tell his parents that he won’t marry this girl. Now after getting married, he has ruined that poor girl’s life! If she is a good practicing muslimah then he should try and make things work as getting married and divorcing is not […]

Sheikh!Some years back i ws been in a haram relationship, الحمد لله Im out of it nw, i regretted and seeked repentance frm Allah. Bt now im in a trouble, long time back someone stolen my phone, and now they are blackmailing me tht thy wll expose the pictures to my husband which i took wit the man when i was in the haram relationship.Wht should i do i thy exposed it? Wht im i gonna answr my hsband?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

27 May

ANSWER: Blackmail is an endless road. Once you start in it, it will never stop! Therefore, DO NOT respond to any of their threats and make duaa to Allah to conceal your sins. If you respond to their threat, they will keep on blackmailing you until you do all what they want you to do. […]

Shaykh if I’m not wrong you say studies are obligatory for men because they are the breadwinner but what if someone can’t get married or has no desire or doesn’t plan to get married or start a family?

Fiqh of Marriage, Jobs

24 May

ANSWER: He can remain a bum for the rest of his life and live on charity given to him by others. No one with honor and dignity accepts such a low life!

I dont read namaz regularly. pray for me for hidayah. My wife threatens me that if i dont read namaz she will leave me. Can a wife threaten husband for divorce? isnt she disrespecting me? It is my emaan and my relation with allah why does she have to interfere by constantly asking me to pray al the time. we always fight bcoz of this reason and i cant take her anymore.

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages, Prayer

24 May

ANSWER: If you are disrespecting Allah, how do you blame people disrespecting you? She has all the right to threaten you as it is prohibited for her to be married to a Kafir who doesn’t pray. If you are not willing to submit your will to Allah and comply with His commands, it is best […]

I am of age and unmarried. I have a interest based credit card and loan which requires monthly repayments. Should I focus on clearing the loans as soon as I can from the salary I get (as “legally” I am bound to pay it with interest), or should I pay only the monthly payments and focus on getting married? I feel like I should repay and get rid of usury as soon as possible, just want to be sure.

Fiqh of Marriage, Loans, Riba

23 May

ANSWER: You must clear off your interest based loan ASAP besides sincerely repenting to Allah while showing deep remorse for this major sin and fast every alternate day if you are not able to curb your sexual desires.

I live with my in laws and they want me to spend much of my time with them even when i don’t want to or i want to do something else also my husband want me to ask permission from my mother in law that whether i go to my parents home and other matters etc and my husband also don’t give me a separate kitchen even i want it i wanna know are they sinful to do such things and interfere in my life

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 May

ANSWER: They have no such rights, none whatsoever and they’re definitely sinful for this transgression! You have all the right in Islam to ask your husband for a separate accommodation. Your in laws have no say or right in this. He must fear Allah and give you your rights. If he cannot give you a […]

Can a girl marry at 27?She wants to graduate university(&look after her family’s finance as her father will be 65 years then)&also study to be a daee&hafiz& learn arabic as it is not possible to take care of house after marriage & study at the same time?Also parents & siblings are not practicing muslims & she being with them is influencing them positively.Here,girls can get married at this age.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

18 May

ANSWER: She should accept marrying a suitable practicing suitor if he comes her way and not delay that as chances come only once. So many women rejected a good suitor only to end up being unmarried their whole lives or only getting proposals from 60 year old men looking for a nurse to take care […]

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