Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Nowadays mixing between men&women has become normalised.I mixed too in the past.I’ve changed my ways.And I wish to marry someone who didn’t have boyfriend or even male friends.Ik it’s rare to find such a woman&Im not worthy of such a person.But can I ask Allah to grant me someone like that or is it childish?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

13 Mar

ANSWER: No problem in asking Allah for a righteous and pious wife. However, do not fall into the trap of satan and investigating about people’s past just because you had one.

QUESTION: Is it okay to feel like I’ll be happy and content in marrying someone,according to his deen and akhlaq, even after getting engaged to someone else?both of us are praying to Allah& waiting for some miracle bcs we like eachother for Allah’s sake alone and want to get married. as now cancelling an engagement without any prop reason would cost family’s respect. what should be done in this scenario

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Mar

ANSWER: You shouldn’t marry someone you don’t want to marry him just because you fear losing respect for your family! If that person is a suitable suitor and a practicing Muslim with a good salary and comes from a good family, he is a bargain that you must not lose! The one you love is […]

QUESTION: Is anal sex and blow job HARAM for married couples ? And what if my wife doesn’t want to do it .

Fiqh of Marriage

08 Mar

ANSWER: Anal sex is totally prohibited and a major sin & whoever does it is cursed by Allah. Is oral sex allowed in Islam?

QUESTION: For work, if husband is far away from his wife and then they met after long time, can they hug each other in public? and can husband kiss her forehead in public, not to showoff but actually show their love to each other. please tell me about this

Fiqh of Marriage

06 Mar

ANSWER: This is inappropriate and they should not do that in public. Get a room!

QUESTION: I am female from India and I run my own business ,can I lent some money to my parents or sisters without my husbands concerns.And what if my husband always ask for my money and fights about it.What is the Islamic ruling for ur sheikh .

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

05 Mar

ANSWER: It’s your own money and you can do whatever you want with it and your husband has no right in it nor are you required to ask him before using your own money on anything. Keep your finances separate from him and he must not know how much you earn or save. You are […]

QUESTION: Sheikh, what percentage of my salary should be given to my family, to the orphan & to keep for myself? Kindly explain the islamic view.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

05 Mar

ANSWER: There is nothing specified as such. It’s your own money and you’re obliged to give at least the basics to your wife and children and as for parents you are only obliged to give them if they don’t have any money of their own.

QUESTION: Sheikh I have no father brother son as I’m unmarried, but I have my paternal cousins and What if I want to get married and whom should I take my wali ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

03 Mar

ANSWER: Yes, your closest paternal next of kin is your guardian though he is not your mahram.

QUESTION: My husband spends on his relatives, I do not have a problem with that , I respect his choices and appreciate his helpful nature , but when I ask for a small trip / travel together he always answers by saying that he doesn’t have any money to do so . I have started feeling bad about this and I no longer have affection for him .What do you recommend in this scenario ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Mar

ANSWER: He is not obliged to take you on vacations and obey you in this regard. He is the man and he has to prioritize helping his needy relatives or taking you on a small trip. It is sad when materialistic things become our driving force that make us sad or happy. You are making […]

QUESTION: My husband and me are very observant of Islamic limits of intimacy. Recently, my periods date was due but not started. There was no sign before And right after intimacy, there was blood on both our private parts and periods started right there. I am very worried as if we will be sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Menstruation and post-natal bleeding

28 Feb

ANSWER: If you didn’t see the blood before that, there is no sin.

QUESTION: You are very well aware that hindu culture has dominance in most Muslim families of subcontinent & how most daughters in law are treated here as you have addressed it many times in your videos.But when women talk about this,men start bashing them by saying it’s not like that&most women are made for hell & are inferior & laugh at us. Advice?

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Feb

ANSWER: Such people are ignorant imbeciles. When dogs bark at you, you can’t fall on your hands and knees and bark back!

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