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He is not obliged to take you on vacations and obey you in this regard. He is the man and he has to prioritize helping his needy relatives or taking you on a small trip. It is sad when materialistic things become our driving force that make us sad or happy.

You are making things difficult for yourself by making this an issue that will potentially spoil your marriage.

QUESTION: My husband spends on his relatives, I do not have a problem with that , I respect his choices and appreciate his helpful nature , but when I ask for a small trip / travel together he always answers by saying that he doesn’t have any money to do so . I have started feeling bad about this and I no longer have affection for him .What do you recommend in this scenario ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | March 1, 2023 2:19 am
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