Kind Treatment of Spouses

My wife trying to practice islam.bt now a days she is so much addicted in fb and she watches movie clips on fb most of the times.she is so much addicted that sometims she doesn’t concern about me.i call hr bt she didn’t respnd and kp watching fb.i tld hr instead of watching fb,you may read islamic books.but she didnt care.how cn i deal with hr in this case?

Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Social Media

20 Aug

ANSWER: You need to have a serious discussion with her as what she is doing is a sin and it is your duty to prevent her from doing such a sin. If she doesn’t listen, stop paying for the WiFi and her mobile phone bills to reduce her time watching such filth.

Wife started online business after marriage. Does husband possess rights to refrain her from it? How much percentage of profit can he ask from her wife on the condition of allowing her continue the business? (Nothing was stipulated in marriage contract)

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

04 Aug

ANSWER: He has no right to stop her as long as she doesn’t leave the house and doesn’t prevent him from his rights! What kind of a man demands money from his wife when she works from home? No real man would accept this if offered, let alone demand it!

How to deal with abusive parents who are mentally abusing me and my wife every few days. When I to moved to another house, father said he will disown me. I am going into depression. Please advise.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Jul

ANSWER: Move out of the house as this is your wife’s right upon you and your parents will eventually accept this, it may take time but after sometime they will have to come to terms with it. Be respectful, diplomatic and humble towards your parents in all situations while at the same time not compromising […]

I am married for a 1.5 year. Me and my husband are in long distance relationship which i do not like. He has gone to other country for job.I live with my in laws .I feel alone. Recently i had a miscarriage, since then i am depressed so much. I ask my husband to come soon.I can’t live like this.he calls me mad if i complain. Am i sinful if i dont talk to him?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

04 Jul

ANSWER: You need to weigh the consequences of your actions and consider your options and what you want from this marriage. If you behave in a certain way while he is away from you, he could easily consider divorcing this woman whom he has no children from and she is causing him and his family […]

I was calling my wife for fazr prayer last night and she was in deep sleep. I called her few times she said she will get up after few minutes. I was calling her constantly then she got angry and said if I do this she won’t get up(for prayer). She then got up and prayed. Is her statement Kufr? That she said if you do this I won’t get up

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer

27 Jun

ANSWER: It is not up to individuals to make takfeer on others as this can only be done by a Muslim judge or ruler. Insisting on getting someone out of the fold of Islam is the methodology of khawarij, the hounds of Hell. You must be more diplomatic and compassionate instead of wanting to get your own wife into […]

My husbnd is not replyng to WhatsApp msgs since Eid (anthr country). My 5 yr son asks 4 video call wd him. I called n he didn’t pickup. He didn’t ask again. My parents r harshly critical of me n thnk of me as a burden. Plz pray for my sanity. I’m havng lot of health issues. I’m so angry! I hit my son n thn cry! I LOVE him

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Jun

ANSWER: May Allah ease all your affairs and give you the best in both worlds. Fear Allah and don’t hit your child as he is innocent and you can’t blame him for your shortcomings and that of your husband. Stop calling your husband for few months and don’t even text him so that he would […]

How to advice a spouse who follows culture more than islam? And when you do try to explain they get verbally abusive, and don’t want to listen..

Kind Treatment of Spouses, Knowledge & Propagation

03 Jun

ANSWER: By advising them and reminding them of Allah and the ruling from the Quran and sunnah when they are willing to listen and by choosing the right times.

My husband doesn’t like me to have hobbies. He allowed me gardening 2 hours a day, but even so he reproaches me for that, as he says house in not tidy enough for his likings. He demands ideal house, everything even in drawers arranged in perfect way, as he is perfectionist. And I am not, I keep house clean, but not ideal. Am I allowed in Islam to have 2 hrs gardening even if house is not perfect?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

02 Jun

ANSWER: Such things are not clear black and white as you are supposed to have what is normally accepted in the society as a clean and tidy house. You are not obliged to make it in an obsessed way like he wants you to. Try to be diplomatic and demand from him as well things […]

About Divorce and second marriage: Sheikh, If a man love a woman and wanted to marry her but his parents not allowed him to get marry to that woman and forced him to get marry with other woman. So that he left that woman whom he love and get married other woman and after few months he feels not attracted by his wife and he wanted to go back to that woman whom he loved, so in this situation what he have to do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

29 May

ANSWER: He should have been Man enough to put his foot down and tell his parents that he won’t marry this girl. Now after getting married, he has ruined that poor girl’s life! If she is a good practicing muslimah then he should try and make things work as getting married and divorcing is not […]

I live with my in laws and they want me to spend much of my time with them even when i don’t want to or i want to do something else also my husband want me to ask permission from my mother in law that whether i go to my parents home and other matters etc and my husband also don’t give me a separate kitchen even i want it i wanna know are they sinful to do such things and interfere in my life

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 May

ANSWER: They have no such rights, none whatsoever and they’re definitely sinful for this transgression! You have all the right in Islam to ask your husband for a separate accommodation. Your in laws have no say or right in this. He must fear Allah and give you your rights. If he cannot give you a […]

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