Kind Treatment of Spouses

Is family planning allowed between husband and wife such as use of contraceptives? Not contraceptives as in pills or birth controls but for example, condoms?

19 Apr

ANSWER: You should use condoms only if your wife agrees.

As per the subject, kindly advice if it is a bad deed to live separately from parents after marriage. Even though my father is earning, so many things are going around at home. There is no peace in my mind. Wife wants a different house. She tried to adjust but I believe I will lose her and my child if I continue to stay with my parents. Please advice.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Jan

ANSWER: It is not a bad deed to live separately after marriage. It is your wife’s right to have a separate accommodation after marriage and you can only give her the due rights.

I need dua from Quran or hadith to increase love and understandings between husband and wife. Please suggest me some powerful dua. Thank you

Kind Treatment of Spouses

21 Dec

ANSWER: There isn’t anything prescribed for this. Make dua to Allah straight ahead while in sujood. There are many things that increase love between a husband and wife such as being concerned with fulfilling your duties towards your spouse and never worry about your rights. Look and smell appealing to your husband while praising and […]

I am struggling to be intimate with my husband because of his smoking and that includes e-cigarettes. This is Extremely difficult for especially now that I am pregnant. I am it’s haram to deny one’s husband intimacy but this is extremely difficult for me. Please advise me what to do.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Oct

You must not refuse intimacy with your husband unless it is harming you and beyond your ability to tolerate. Tell him that this smell harms you and the baby.

My wife urges me to live away from my original relatives but she is fine to have my parents in a new place. But my parents want to live in old house joint family with other relatives also. I feel its unfair from wife & Islamic perspective. If I leave, then I go against ‘Ihsaan’ towards parents because they’ll be called as leftovers by people. Now what to do?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Oct

Where is it written that you have to live with your entire extended family. This is hindu culture, it has nothing to do with Islam. You should be grateful that your wife is agreeing to live with your parents, even though she’s not obliged to do that. Get this new place for her and yourself […]

Sheikh i got married recently and my wife is showing little interest in islam although she prays she delays her prayers whenever i put on a lecture on islam or try to make her listen to the quran with its translation she shows little or no interest i have been having problems with depression beccuase of this what should i do.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Sep

Have patience, try to reach and win her heart rather than forcing her and supplicate to Allah to guide her.

My husband behave is not as much as good with me like our sahaba and nabiz s.a.w treat their wifes love care .. he was involve with girls after nikah now i feel he only want my body not soul. If i refuse to intimate he completly cut off with me i take care of him so much but sometime i feel bad and dont share bed with him . He even not understand my feelings

Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Sep

Men have desires and wives must fulfill their needs, one important reason to get married is this desire, but sometimes men do not know how to express their feelings, you can talk to him politely and with love how you want him to treat you, be patient and in sha Allah he will be changed […]

I was labelled as a bad son for supporting my wife in front of my parents and siblings. I stay away from my home and in my homeland there was lots of misunderstanding raised between my wife and mother, thus I asked her to go and stay in her mother’s place to avoid more misunderstanding because I would lose any one of them. Did I do anything wrong Shaikh?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 May

Your parents have rights over you and so does your wife. You did nothing wrong in supporting your wife as long as you were not disrespectful or rude with your mother. Your wife has the right to a separate accommodation in Islam. Work hard on getting her that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zehAWR9hQbE

My husband is not allowing me to go to Taraweeh to Masjid. I really really want to go shaykhs. I used to go before marriage now I feel like I am totally disturbed as he is not allowing me. But he is a practicing muslim.Alhamdulillh. What to do in situations like these?

Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer, Rulings on mosques

28 May

You have to obey him. Try to soften his heart and remind him of the order of the Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam not to prevent women from going to Allah’s houses.

A friend of mine said that her mother keeps on saying that paying for or getting an ill/sick wife treated is not the husband’s responsibility but is the responsibility of the wife herself. When it’s written in Holy Quran that Man has made superior to Woman as he pays than how much is it true and what is the ruling for it ?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

26 Apr

This is not truel! It is the husband’s duty to provide for his wife as well as pay for her treatment if she is sick. What kind of husband would he be if he left his wife sick with no medical treatment?

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