Fiqh of the family

Sheikh,my father has hurt many people in his life.He only wants to destroy me mother’s family.My father urged my uncle to divorce my aunt.He humiliates my mother,her relatives.He receives bad’duas from my aunts n uncles.Can this happen that his children suffer in life bcz of wht their father did?Will we receive the bad’duas he gets constantly?

Fiqh of the family

15 Sep

ANSWER: No soul shall bear the weight of another’s sins. His children will not be affected by any of his wrongdoings. You must serve, honor and be respectful towards him despite whatever he has done as he is your middle gate to Paradise while anticipating your reward from Allah alone.

My father is very friendly with me…we talk almost like friends…I always make fun of him but he doesn’t feel angry…so is it permissible?or I need to talk with giving respect always?

Fiqh of the family

04 Sep

ANSWER: No problem in being friendly, however, you must never cross the line of respect.

My mother thinks that daughters are just maids. We do all house chores.when she talk to us she start a conversation by shouting.she thinks that daughters are made just for the work.she never understands us.she gave priority to her sons.because of this i also give her reply by yelling when she yells first.i don’t want to shout but she talks like we are just garbage.will i b punish for yelling?

Fiqh of the family, Sins

31 Aug

ANSWER: Of course you would be punished with hell fire for yelling at your mother as this is one of the major sins in Islam! Stop this immediately and apologize to your mother and never ever raise your voice or even roll your eyes in front of the parents if you want Allah to forgive […]

Sheikh at which age should kids be segregated in their bed? 7 or 10? Because on islamqa they say 10 but on your site you said 7 and also there are ahadeeth who say different. I always thought it was 7.

Fiqh of the family

26 Aug

ANSWER: It is an issue of dispute. I am inclined to follow the opinion of those saying that it is 7 years. It is alway best to be safe than sorry especially in today’s times and Media.

My friend question :If son has a problem in his private parts…and his age is 20 can he tell and show to his mother? He don’t like to tell others about his problem except his mother?so What Islam says about this ?

Fiqh of the family

26 Aug

ANSWER: Of course not unless she is still changing his diapers till date! He should consult a doctor or tell his father about it.

My husband goes to his brothers house so my husband Can see his kids. His brother know that my husband does not want to sit with his wife in the same room but she stills sit with them and talk to him. Sometimes she sit with them and talk and then come back. Does my husband get Sins because of that.

Fiqh of the family

23 Aug

ANSWER: He must let his brother know very clearly that he won’t come to his house if his wife would come and sit in the same room as they’re are non mahram to each other and it’s prohibited to have mixed gatherings like this.

I’m a convert from Europe married to a Saudi Arabian man. I am pregnant now and we had a big argue about the babies name, does it have to be the fathers name? And his grandfathers name? And then the great grandfather? And is it now allowed to have both last names ? Like the mothers name and the fathers? I would appreciate your help sooo much.. i really don’t know what to do..

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

13 Aug

ANSWER: The name must be followed by father’s name and if required grandfather’s name. The Mother’s name is not included in Islam with a person’s name at all. Some say only children born out of wedlock are called after their mothers!

Sir i am very rude specially to my mother.i love her and i know that she has raised us through many difficulties and hardship yet i cant control my anger for her silly behavior.I tried myself to be good with her but i can’t keep that up for long time.i listen to many lectures about this topic yet i can’t mend my behave.what should i do?

Fiqh of the family

08 Aug

ANSWER: Prepare to take your seat in hell! There is no excuse accepted from you except if you are insane and unaccountable. It is funny how your anger is selective and you can only show it to your mother. But if it was to your boss, a police officer or to a man full of […]

We are visiting my sister’s home where my parent’s live also and she has daughters. If my son is never left alone with his female cousins and he doesn’t participate in anything more than basic pleasantries can he sit and eat with everyone on Eid or should he spend Eid alone.

Fiqh of the family

04 Aug

ANSWER: Family gatherings must be segregated. He must sit with the rest of the men in the house.

We r searching rishta for our brother,my brother age is 22 but he is induged in some bad habbits like alcohol smoking should we tell all these thing where we r doing his rishta or not ? My mother says to me i am alnoe come with me for visiting people but i do not feel this fair and justice wth the family we will do rishta (marraige),but if we will tell them no one will marry him.what to do In ths?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

27 Jul

ANSWER: You must not be a part of this process at all and remind your mother in a respectful manner to fear Allah! Ask her how she would feel to have been married with someone who smokes and drinks alcohol that she had no clue of before marriage! Would she want her daughter to marry […]

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