Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: My kids hurt me so much & disregarded me often, I can’t bear as a mother, I forgave them in my heart plenty of times, they are adult now, I decided not to make dua for them, am I sinful if I’ll do this? Though my son feeds me give me money but often tells me that he did this he did that. I feel embarrassed to take.money from him.

Fiqh of the family

17 Oct

ANSWER: There is no sin on you for not making duaa for them.

QUESTION: My parents lived with my brother for years. Now, my dad wants to give him the money from selling his property to cover expenses. Is this fair, since another brother disagrees?”

Fiqh of the family, Inheritance

15 Oct

ANSWER: If your father wants to contribute in the house expenses then this is permissible But giving him a gift without giving the same to his other children is not permissible & one of the major sins in Islam

QUESTION: Should I attend my brother’s daughter’s birthday party, considering I usually avoid mixed gatherings for religious reasons, to avoid hurting family members’ feelings?

Fiqh of the family, Sports, Entertainment and Music

10 Oct

ANSWER: You must not attend as attending a birthday imitates the disbelievers in their falsified festivities.

QUESTION: My father sends money to my grandmother, who’s happy in our home country. During her visit in early 2024, she showed dislike for my mother and caused tension, sometimes making my father angry with us. She took my sister’s toys without asking to give to my uncle’s son. Now, my father wants her to visit again, but my mother and I feel uncomfortable. Should we refuse?”

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of the family

04 Oct

ANSWER: It’s his house and he can definitely bring his mother for a visit once in a while. Your mother should be thankful to Allah that she’s living separately from her in laws and not living in a joint family like millions of other women in the subcontinent

QUESTION: Am I obliged to sponsor my mom and disabled brother to live in west If my older brother is working and sustaining them and he just wants to get rid of their responsibility and put it on me if my mom wants to be sponsored just to be western is it compulsory upon me? She is living fine with olde brot

Fiqh of the family

01 Oct

ANSWER: All the children must partake their mother’s responsibility and share it between them without doing anything haram

QUESTION: I married 25 yrs ago & left my wife with my joint family to work abroad. Within a month she accused my younger bro of se* harassment n I enquired, but my family (incl parents) denied it. She sought khula & I agreed. Now, 25 yrs later, my sis revealed the allegation was true & everyone knew abt it but fam members lied to me. Now how shld I deal with them, incl parents?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

01 Oct

ANSWER: Deal with them normally as no one put a gun to your head to believe them over your wife. This was your doing and now you must live with it!

QUESTION: I have a family (mother, wife, and a young daughter), and my salary is moderate. I often struggle financially by month’s end. I give sadaqa monthly but feel it’s too little. Is there a recommended amount for sadaqa?

Charity, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Sep

ANSWER: No. Providing for your family is a sadaqa by itself.

QUESTION: My parents were separated when I’m just too young, that I can’t remember now (20years old ). My father totally left us without taking any financial responsibility for me.. He gave excuses that Allah has forbidden to make contact with the divorcee wife & female children.. Is this really true that one cannot provide any kind of expenses of their children if they got divorced

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

27 Sep

ANSWER: This is absolutely false and he’s sinful for not providing for you! It’s his responsibility to take care of the financial needs of all his children, even after divorce

QUESTION: My brother is always checking my phone. I’m a working woman, so he is checking to see whether I’m talking with anyone or not. One day, I got some messages from a wrong number. I’m not involved, but the messages are not good that’s why he always check my phone Is it right for him to always check my phone?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family

22 Sep

ANSWER: This is absolutely wrong and he has no right to do that! Change your password! Get your father involved and tell him about this!

QUESTION: I’ve reverted to Islam and my parents are typical Hindus. After a lot of chaos they accepted me as Muslim and I got married to a Muslim Alhamdullillah. But as they still do idol worship at home, can I visit and stay with them and pray at their place.

Fiqh of the family, Prayer, Religions

21 Sep

ANSWER: No problem. You must be more respectful and merciful to them as you’re representing islam now.

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