Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: I gave 5k monthly to my dad, nvr chck wat he does with it. I found out that gives to relatives & friends in need. Now on can I ask him to inform me what he does with it. Is the money considered mine?

Fiqh of the family

14 Nov

ANSWER: If you are giving it as a gift, you have no right to ask But if it is your money and he is saving it for you, then you can tell him not to give it away like this

QUESTION: If I give sadaqah as a father, do my wife and child automatically benefit from it as well? Or does my intention have to be that it is in the name of my family?

Charity, Fiqh of the family

04 Nov

ANSWER: Prior intention is mandatory.

QUESTION: If a non-Muslim girl from a very strict Hindu family wants to revert to Islam, but fears her parents will harm or kill her if she does, and she fears Allah’s punishment in Hell, can she marry a Muslim man to save herself? If yes, how can she marry, considering her father (a non-Muslim) is her Wali (guardian)?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Other, Religions

02 Nov

ANSWER: She must take the shahada immediately and then go to the local authorised islamic center and the imam there would become her wali and give her in marriage to the Muslim man. Her father is a kafir and has nothing to do with her marriage.

QUESTION: Every day my family watches tv most of the time i stay in my room to avoid that but sometimes it’s hard for me to stay isolated all the time so sometimes i come to the living room and when he watches tv , there are haram things. Is it a sin if I sometimes stay in the living room even if I don’t approve of what he’s watching?

Fiqh of the family, Sports, Entertainment and Music

01 Nov

ANSWER: Yes.

QUESTION: After childbirth, my husband left me and our child with my mother while he stays with his parents. He gives all his money to them and doesn’t support us. When we visit, his mother belittles me and demands I give him money, though I’m not working. My husband insists I obey her. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Oct

ANSWER: If what you are saying is true, your husband is not a real man and you are better off leaving him before you get more children from him and it only becomes worse! Warn him that you will take him to court and demand all of your rights and if this doesn’t work, get […]

QUESTION: My father lives in another country and I loged into his account and saw that he watches haram. Do I tell my mother which will cause a huge fight, or should I say nothing and pretend I never saw what happend?

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters, Sins

27 Oct

ANSWER: It is a major sin to expose the sins of others which Allah has concealed! It is even a greater sin to spy and to destroy your parents’ marriage. Fear Allah and keep your nose out of his business and pray to Allah that he doesn’t expose your sins to the public as well.

QUESTION: My husband says he noticed my son-in-law staring at me from my back and thinks he has evil thoughts and doesn’t want my daughter and son-in-law to visit me when he is not home. I have not noticed anything suspicious from my son-in-law. My husband travels a lot and it is difficult for my daughter and me. What is your advice to my husband, me, and my daughter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Oct

ANSWER: Your son-in-law is mahram to you and like your own son, however, if your husband is not comfortable with him being around when he’s not at home, you must not invite them in his absence.

QUESTION: If I do sin and my parents trust that I won’t do that sin But I do that without them knowing Is it betrayal with them?

Fiqh of the family, Sins

26 Oct

ANSWER: This is betrayal with Allah!

QUESTION: My mom doesn’t let me buy a motorcycle. Am I sinful if I still go and buy it with my own money ?

Fiqh of the family

25 Oct

ANSWER: I don’t know the circumstances of your situation, your age, the reason she is refusing and how dangerous this is.

QUESTION: My son is 24 yrs and I am getting him married. Problem is that he doesn’t pray regularly, like he prays jumaa and 1-2 prayers a day. Some days no prayer at all. He also has anti islamic views. Can I look for a religious girl (niqaabi) for his marriage? is it ok if I do this? Do I need to tell the girl his prayer status?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

20 Oct

ANSWER: You shouldn’t assist him in getting married if he as you had described as you would be harming and deceiving a poor muslim woman and her family.

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