Fiqh of the family

Is it ok to have a heated conversation with your parents? i blame them for not continuing my university, and i blame them for not teaching me any profession in order to stand up on my feet. i am 23 year old and im drop out no degree and im just like a 13 year old, no profession. they refuse to help me start a farm which is my only option. is it ok to have heated conversation?

Fiqh of the family

19 Jun

ANSWER: This is a major sin and defies being dutiful and respectful to them. They are your gateway to paradise! Preserve this gate or lose it.

My mother gifted my share in my dads wealth to her brother! Sir, I’m mentally and psychologically disturbed by my mother.My mother’s brother owned us money,after my father’s death my mother gifted some of that money to her brother without my constant and asked him to repay some of it back which is a very small a amount monthly.Her betraying us i cant accept it and i want my full share of that money at once. Do I ask her or my uncle?

Fiqh of the family

13 Jun

ANSWER: This is your right and you must ask it from your mother. However, she’s your mother and you must be respectful towards her as she’s your gate to Paradise. Don’t let some petty cash come in the way of gaining Paradise through serving her.

I have a better relation with my father. but when he got angry,he cursed me sometimes. so what are the remedies for this curses if it is affected me. ie, any specific duas of protection from curses?

Fiqh of the family

11 Jun

ANSWER: If you haven’t done anything wrong to him, these curses won’t have any effect. https://www.assimalhakeem.net/sheikh-whenever-my-mother-gets-upset-even-for-a-small-thing-she-could-speak-ill-towards-us-hurtful-things-how-can-we-stop-her-from-this-even-if-we-try-to-tell-her-nicely-if-she-is-not-angry-or-shar/

I want to know if it’s permissible to go with relatives and their family.. like my cousins and their husbands and wives and kids.. we all obtain hijab and we don’t intermingle much with the opposite genders but of our own.. and randomly or when necessary we talk.. is it ok?

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

08 Jun

ANSWER: If there is no intermingling or mixing and no communicating and women are abiding by the proper hijab and once you arrive, they sit segregated, this is permissible.

Is asking to parents the same as them gifting to me?, i mean if i ask something to my parents, does my brothers have to get the same?.

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

06 Jun

ANSWER: They must be equal in giving gifts. If you ask something out of necessity such medication or fees for studying, they do not have to give your brother the same.

In Islam, until what age is the financial responsibility of the Father to his sons.

Fiqh of the family

29 May

ANSWER: There is no age limit set if the son is in need, the father is obliged to spend on him and vice versa until he works or doesn’t need his assistance.

My mother Curses me when she get angry. But when I listen her Dua in her Salah she makes lots of Dua for Us(children). Will Allah accept her Curse for me? Will her Dua affect in my life?

Fiqh of the family

11 May

ANSWER: If you did not do anything wrong with her then her curses won’t have any negative impact on you. Her duas on the other hand are most likely to get accepted and she must be advised not to make such Duaa as she doesn’t know if Allah will answer her Duaa at that particular […]

If i Don’t want to go somewhere but my parents forced me but i really don’t want to or i Don’t feel safe there or i Don’t like to go anyone’s home my parternals or maternals is it a sin not to go somewhere i may get loud coz they don’t understand me nor they want to if i raise my voice unintentionally coz i Don’t like it to get forced is it a sin?n is it necesry to go ur relatives home

Fiqh of the family

08 May

ANSWER: It is absolutely necessary to obey your parents. No matter how much you dislike going there, it is not permissible for you to shout or be rude to them! It is a major sin! Just be mature and visit them and finish the task rather than creating a scene. If there is sins or mixing […]

Sheikh my parents are living separately but not divorced, i have two elder brothers, my mother and brothers want that i talk to my father very less, cut off ties with his brothers and sisters as they were unjust to my mother for many years and my father was disrespectful towards my mother since always but now separate. Is it ok to break ties like this?

Fiqh of the family

01 May

ANSWER: This is absolutely not permissible and you must not listen to them at all.

My husband is very much arrogant,shouts on me, beat up in silly issues, calls my guardians and always threatens to send away, to give divorce.He sent me out several times, even when i was pregnant. My guardians mitigated and sent be back few times.6 months ago he beated me kicked me out with my then-2 months old kid. Now he wants me to go back,my parents feel insecured to let me go. What to do?

Fiqh of the family

01 May

ANSWER: You should have obtained medical reports to prove his abuse and physical violence against you as this would prevent him from repeating it again for the fear of being jailed for such domestic violence.

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