Fiqh of the family

In our custom after marriage, the husband used to stay in his wife’s house and their children will grow in her house itself till the time the husband build a house of their own. I would like to ask if is this permissible in Islam.

Fiqh of the family

13 Jan

This is permissible if the wife permits it!

My husbnd touch his part from my back side(only bumps) not insid only frm outside area it touching on bumps coz insert is haram .Many tym he do while foreplay over clothes. Plz tell that this thing will not maqrooh our nikah. and he want to intercourse from back postion he didnt insert in anal just position is back rest he do it according to islam . Is he allow to do so.He never do anal sex,only like that position so i want to make it confirm.

Fiqh of the family

30 Dec

It is not permissible to have anal sex or to have foreplay there! Even of he doesn’t insert it, playing round it will make him do that one day. Satan is just waiting for the right moment. If it was while wearing your clothes, this is ok.

If one’s father/husband asks family to cut down relationship with others (relatives) as they bring nothing but Fitnah and everything negative possible. What’s the ruling? Their gathering includes backbiting/slandering of others and evil eye too Allahu Alam.

Fiqh of the family

05 Nov

If this is real and true, one can minimize relationship to the least possible degree that would protect him or her from harm and at the same time maintain what Allah ordered us to connect.

My wife is someone who is not really interested & doesn’t enjoy intercourse & intimacy.I have to ‘start’ anything myself to fulfill my desires, but cannot do so as much I would want to. I don’t think I will be able to do justice to two wives if I take a 2nd wife. Would it be allowed for me to use some sexual toys rather than falling into a Haram relationship outside marriage?

Fiqh of the family

21 Sep

Using such toys is prohibited on your own as this is masturbation. Try to coach your wife and to teach her how to please you bit by bit.

My daughter and son in law are not allowing me and her step father to see the baby anymore. She is 10 months now and we have done everything for them. My daughter has chronic fatigue and we are always there to help FINANCIALLY as well. My husband is a joker and has made joking comments over the years and months as he does with his own family. He said to my daughter maybe I can teach baby some Algerian cooking , maybe she will be a doctor or something nice when she is older if you encourage her in her education. Sometimes he calls me his wife whitey woman and I call him browny man as JOKE. HE SAID IT LOVINGLY TO MY GRANDDAUGHTER WHITEY GIRL AND SAID GRANNY IS GRUMPY.We helped my daughter and son in law to move house financially last week and now they sent a text to me from my son in law saying that we can not see the baby to take her out as they do not want my husband to see her as he is a bad influence. My husband is a practicing Muslim that loves to joke, only he did not know he was upsetting anyone. My son in law said I can come to their home and see the baby but not take her out. My daughter and son in law are both revert Muslims and have really hurted me. I am in the middle and at my wits end I did nothing wrong but I can’t take my grandchild out. Please could you advise me on this situation that shaitan has created

Fiqh of the family

18 Sep

I had a similar question for a woman and I told her that she must obey her husband in what he tells her even if this angers her mother! Having said this, it is the FATHER’S RIGHT to allow his daughter to go or not to go to places! Being ten month old, this is […]

Is it halal to have affair with one’s husband when it is not her duty as in the case of a woman who has a rival and she is not staying in the same house with the rival?

Fiqh of the family

17 Sep

You shouldn’t reject him. If he is not fair it is his sin not yours.

I am married and recently my husband has stopped any communication with me. It hasn’t been the first time. He has done it before but it would only last 3 days, this time it has lasted for a week. And everyday I feel him getting more angry and I don’t know why. I have tried everything before messaging a friend that I needed to speak to a sheikh.

Fiqh of the family

17 Sep

This is an issue of communication. If he is living in the same house but refuses to speak to you, try your level best to make a statement to him that if you don’t know what is making him angry, you can’t fix it or change it! He must tell you of your mistakes so […]

Does the step-father have any duty or responsibility towards the step-daughters?

Fiqh of the family

13 Jul

No.

I have a question does a son have the right to choose his career for example you want to be a engineer and your parents want you to be something else

Fiqh of the family

08 Jul

Yes, he does have the right to choose his career, however you should take into consideration the advice and reasoning of your parents too. But at the end of the day, the decision is yours.

A man travelled for about 15hrs by road,on arrival at home he neither took shower nor brush his mouth that night and the following day and night,on account of this,his wife refused his advances for sex.is she sinful?she could not stand the offensive odor.

Fiqh of the family

27 Jun

No, she isn’t.

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