Fiqh of the family

Alhamdulillah I have been practicing deen for 3yrs now bt I have a very bad attitude problem.when me & father starts talking we end up in fight always.I always back answer him alot, he end up getting so angry and calling bad words,curse,bad words on my beard.etc. Please how can i change please sincerely advice or give tips to change this behaviour. I’m trying it for long time.

Fiqh of the family

27 Aug

This is totally unacceptable. Fathers are usually aggressive in nature. Whenever he gets angry at you just bear his anger for 5 minutes. And then from the 6th minute, you will get the best advice in the world. Respect your parents. Never answer him back even if he is wrong and you are right. Always […]

QUESTION: Sheikh whenever my mother gets upset even for a small thing she could speak ill towards us, hurtful things. How can we stop her from this? Even if we try to tell her nicely if she is not angry or share to her lectures about this it seems that she never changes or realize that we can be hurt whenever she says negative things.She never apologises to us coz for her she’s our mother.

Fiqh of the family

23 Aug

ANSWER: People have different tests in this world. Some are tested in their health. There are those who undergo dialysis ever other day. Others get the chemotherapy treatment, not knowing if they will make it or not. There are those who face different calamities such as wars, insecurity, poverty, famine, earthquakes, volcanos etc. I know […]

Shaik, can a 15 year boy become a wali for his mother as there is no one left to be her wali. She is 40 years of age with 5 childrens, the elder son is of 15 and next one is 14. Can these two sons become wali of her mother?

Fiqh of the family

31 Jul

The 15 year old is a man and he is her Wali.

I got the problem that I’m annoyed by things people do (especially mom) and I don’t think that’s normal. I wanna show her normal love as others do. But it’s not working. I’m praying a lot for it to go away but it’s happening the opposite (that’s what I’m feeling) please help me.. I need advice to get a normal bond with my parents.

Fiqh of the family

11 Jul

Your mother is your gateway to Paradise and Allah mandates that you be dutiful and address her in terms of honor and respect while showing her mercy! Ignore what annoys you while anticipating your reward from Allah the Almighty! Kindly refer to the following link(s): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BE24mHeDf3E https://www.assimalhakeem.net/you-said-that-im-sinful-if-my-mother-sees-that-im-annoyed-by-her-rude-and-impolite-behavior-how-am-i-supposed-to-look-happy-and-smile-when-she-is-being-rude-and-impolite-to-me/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0mRNVDaCCY – taking care of our parents

If my father is taking me to a guest’s house where I will have to sit in the same room as women or eat on the same table, I have to refuse to go with him?

Fiqh of the family

10 Jul

You politely decline and explain him why.

shayakh,keeping relation with relatives is mandatory in islam.but if a son continuously misbehaved with his mother,can that mother separated from her son,I mean can she live in another house without her son?

Fiqh of the family

27 Jun

Yes she can live in a separate house, but she should not refuse to talk to him and sever the communication.

I heard it is a sin to be anything less than the best (ihsan) to parents. I saw your video on this. But it is very difficult to be the best always,shariah is not that difficult. What do you say? I mean it is sin to be the 2nd or 3rd best behaviours to parents? It is not that 2nd and third are disrespectful.

Fiqh of the family

27 Jun

This is permissible but not rewardable as long as you are dutiful and not disrespectful.

I m divorced guy & getting 2nd marriage tough in our culture.I try to follow Sunnah. My mom insisting me shave my beard bcz girls rejecting my proposal.my mom emotionally insisting me to shave & keep after marriage.what to do?

Fiqh of the family

20 Jun

There are thousands of women who are niqabi who are waiting for a practising man like you! Kindly refer to the following link(s): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIJlpC0Erfc

Sheikh, I’ve committed a major sin and would like to repent from it sincerely. I just lost my temper with my mother. I cursed her by calling her an idiot and talking in a loud voice. How can I make up for this act? Please advise.

Fiqh of the family

18 Jun

You must ask for her forgiveness and repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity! I don’t know any sin that is more heinous or serious than this except shirk!

Sheikh my father is very abusive &very angry person 2 talk 2,zero patience.&he fights on everything my mother says even if she says correct,by everythin I mean it.he wants that no one should speak in front of him just obey him whatever he says either right or wrong.When he shouts& gets abusive how can I respect him then from heart?he says I’ll go to hell if I disobeyed hm or argue

Fiqh of the family

17 Jun

He is your test from Allah, as Allah has tested others with cancer and poverty and wars. Be dutiful and patient for the sake of Allah and Allah will punish him for his abuse and behavior.

More..