Fiqh of Marriage

Sheikh what is the view of intimacy in islam.is it only for men or is it for both to enjoy each other, i heard some muslim scholars say that women dont want sex they only want emotional love and they dont have sexual desire, and there is not much hadith about intimacy, so can you tell me is it only for men or the husband should even consider his wive’s desires?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 Jun

ANSWER: It is for both. Women are also humans they also have desires! What you have heard is wrong.

Do I need permission from my husband to do any ibada other than voluntary fasting such as voluntary prayers,dua,Dikr,making up of my previous missed fast (the fastings which I left previously out of laziness,I have so much missed fastings and salah),thahajood etc.should I need his permission.If he doesn’t like me doing the above will get my deeds reject

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Jun

ANSWER: You do not need his permission to make up mandatory missed fasts as you must make them up since its a debt on you, nor for dhikr or voluntary prayers. However, once he calls you to bed, you must leave everything and respond to him.

What if a husband forces for anal sex or does it by force.he gets frustated and angry if denied

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

09 Jun

ANSWER: Anal sex is one of the major sins in Islam and Allah has cursed those who do it! If he forces her to do this, she must refuse and resist him physically if needed. If someone wanted to rape her and he would get frustrated if she prevented him, would she allow him? She […]

Now i am 24, from last 2 years my parents are searching for a good match, but myself getting rejected by most of the people as because of that people are taunting me and my parents I myself never involved in any haram activities, i am a god fearing and a Obidient daughter to my parents…. now my patience level is getting low day by day. Just help me to come over this

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Jun

ANSWER: This is a test for you, be patient, fill your time with beneficial things, and do not just think about this issue as it was pre-destined 50,000 years before creating the universe. Be confident in Allah and trust Him and depend only on Him. If there is good in it for you, it will […]

We are searching groom for my sister. People around us are asking photos of my sister with her head uncovered. But as per our knowledge, it is not permissible. Please advice me whether it is permissible to send such photos to boy’s family?

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jun

ANSWER: This is not permissible as women must not be filmed or photographed. You must not give them a picture of her even with her head covered!

Here in the uk it seems in order to have the nikkah a civil marriage certificate must be done first. Is this ok in islam? My concern is mainly the order in which one should be done first.

Fiqh of Marriage

26 May

ANSWER: If the guardian of the woman says to the groom in the presence of two Muslim men or more other than groom: I give you my daughter in marriage and he says I accept marrying her, they are man and wife. They can later on make the civil marriage and go to the Islamic […]

Is it permissible for a woman to search a husband for herself on her own?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 May

ANSWER: She can search on matrimonial sites however, she must not have any communication with potential suitors as this is her wali’s job.

is it impermissible if a person cuts off a abusive family member that does nothing but insult them and say things like “I wish you die” and “I wish you go to hell”? There is a hadith that says “The one who severs the ties of kinship will not enter Paradise.”

Fiqh of Marriage

15 May

ANSWER: You must not cut ties of kinship with them. You should at least give them Salam whenever you meet and keep the conversation limited to phone calls once in a while, presuming these are mahram relatives.

My parents gave my custody to my current family when i was 6. I am legally adopted in my current family. I am soon to be married in sha Allah. I want to know whose name should be on my nikah papers. My custodians or my real father?

Fiqh of Marriage, Mahram

13 May

ANSWER: It is not permissible for a woman to be called by anything other than her real father’s name. There is nothing in islam as adoption and this family you are living with are all non mahram to you and total strangers that you must not mix with! https://youtu.be/IMQr6cCToM4

sheikh, in our society the parents of male groom doesn’t do the congrats of marriage date fixing because they are dominant being the family of a boy. Therefore my family has decided we will not give them the call of congrats otherwise they would feel themselves superior and we Don wanna support their dominancy nd pride bcz in islam all are equal . Is it OK sheikh?

Fiqh of Marriage

10 May

ANSWER: When two roosters meet, there is usually a fight! You can’t begin a marriage with such pride and arrogance. If they don’t want to call and your family doesn’t want to call, there is nothing wrong in that providing that this won’t affect the couple in their marriage! Because if the groom is like […]

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