Fiqh of Marriage

Is visiting marriage counseller haram?

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Nov

ANSWER: Of course not. If there’s a problem between spouses then it’s recommended for them to visit a muslim marriage counselor.

I have chosen a spouse for marriage and my father was not agreeing in beginning but now Alhamdulillah he agreed to proceed. My father is not practicing Muslim. He has chosen the local imam who does not have correct aqeeda and gives taweez to women. If I tell dad to change the imam he gets angry and is strict on him performing the nikah. What should we do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

04 Nov

ANSWER: The imam has no impact on the validity of the marriage. He only registers it. When your father says to the groom in the presence of two male Muslim witnesses : I give you my daughter in marriage and he answers: I accept, the Marraige is done.

Need to clarify a doubt. As a mother i am disturbed v badly to take a decision. I found a match for my daughter who matches everything except the height. Boy n the girl they both are 5.3 height. Can i accept the proposal? Kindly advice me Sheikh pl.

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Nov

ANSWER: Accept it if he is righteous and practicing even if he is shorter than her! They are going to get married and not pose for modeling!

Shaikh when im mensturating and my husband feels the need for sex, he asks me to relieve him by hand, is this ok to do? Also is it allowed for him to relieve me by his hand during mentruation (i know penetration is not allowed) but with his hand is it ok to do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

15 Oct

ANSWER: Yes, this is permissible in both cases.

Sir how can we judge whether the boy is one with whom we should get married as per our Islam?

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Oct

ANSWER: This is done through investigating by asking the imam of the masjid whether he is regular in prayer or not and by asking his colleagues and relatives about his character etc.

my husband used to work abroad. I recently discovered he had an affair for at least 2years whilst he was working away. He has now returned to be together with our children, he won’t give me any details of the affair. I am trying to forgive and move on but I’m very suspicious. Is it permissible to hack his mobile.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Oct

ANSWER: This is not permissible as spying is prohibited in Islam. If he is remorseful over what he had done and he wants to be with you and his children, forgive him for the sake of Allah as by not doing this, you will be letting Shaytan destroy your marriage and life.

Is it normal for a husband to say that wife try even control his wish of travel date bring him bad luck when wife try to advice why not try to travel 1 day earlier or later in order not to miss friday prayer?

Fiqh of Marriage, Superstitions

09 Oct

ANSWER: No, as no one can bring “bad luck” to anyone and thinking this can be a form of shirk! It is obvious that such a husband has issues and she must be more than diplomatic when dealing with him!

Is it compulsory that nikkah should be done in mosque ? Or can the nikkah be in any other place or building?

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Oct

ANSWER: It is neither compulsory nor recommended to do nikah in the masjid. It can be done anywhere.

Who has to spend money for the nikkha feast and other expenditure on that day, groom’s family or bride’s family, which is permissible in islamic shareeya

Fiqh of Marriage

30 Sep

ANSWER: It is the responsibility of the groom. However, sometimes the brides’ family wishes to invite more guests and would like to contribute. This is permissible.

Suppose during aqd nikah mahr is written as 200000 tk, but with the intention that 70000 is obligatory to pay (as husbands capacity is low) and the remaining are optional for the husband, its totally up to him will he pay it or not? Is this type of condition allowed?

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

28 Sep

ANSWER: No, this is ambiguous. He must write down what he would actually pay.

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