Fiqh of Marriage

I’m in a deadly problem. Im 21 years old running and extremely in need of Marriage. If I dont i dont get married then i fear falling into heinous sins. My parents will break their ties and i have to leave the home and cant have contact with them if i marry.

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Dec

ANSWER: Generally speaking, if you are a man, you do not require the permission of your parents to get married. Try to talk to them in a diplomatic way and tell them you fear falling into sin if you don’t. If they don’t listen, get married even if they cut you off! Try to work […]

Sheikh, can i make it a condition in my marriage contract that my husband doesn’t remarry as long as I’m in his nikah? I know he doesn’t need permission before remarrying the second wife, but I do not want my husband to have a second wife as long as I’m with him.

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

15 Dec

ANSWER: It is permissible to stipulate this in your marriage contract.

Are Muslim marriage sites permissible to use for finding a wife?

Fiqh of Marriage

11 Dec

ANSWER: If these are Islamic and don’t display the photos of women and don’t give direct access to them, this is permissible.

A righteous guy is asking for my brother’s contact number to marry me. He seems to be nice but i’m not sure if I like the way he looks. Now he is asking for me to quickly tell him if i consider him so he could call my brother. He lives abroad, and I’m not completely sure about his lifestyle. No one knows Ive contacted him over internet regarding marriage. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage

08 Dec

ANSWER: You must not contact him yourself whatsoever as this is not befitting of a Muslima and he is non-mahram to you. Give him your brothers phone number and then cut off all communication with him; let your brother do all the talking and investigating. You can get to know him during the initial interview […]

Cañ a father has the right over his son to give his sister out. This father left them both and with their mother when they were toddlers. Hasnt seen them in 25years Hasnt done any father dutý and doesnt pray salah or follow teachings of islam but his son and brother of the sister does follows

Fiqh of Marriage, Mahram

30 Nov

ANSWER: Father will remain the wali even if he does not stay with them. If he is labeled kafir by a sharia court or two witnesses testify that he has left the fold of Islam, only then her brother can be her Wali and guardian. The father can authorize his son or anyone else to […]

Is it okay if I carry my wife in my arms, right after nikah to the car back home, as a gesture of affection? Its just what I would like to do at my nikah ceremony with my future wife.

Fiqh of Marriage

23 Nov

ANSWER: This is imitating the disbelievers and it is totally uncalled for nor it is appropriate in front of non mahram to the woman!

My question is, my cousin sister is marrying a non muslim(budhist) guy with whome she has fallen in love.Is it prohibited for us muslim family members to attend it?Her family have given their consent.He (groom )won’t be converting to Islam.

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Nov

ANSWER: Their so-called ‘marriage’ is invalid and she will be living with him in zina! It is not permissible to attend. If she believes that her marriage is valid and legal, she is an apostate and out of the fold of Islam. You and your whole family must have nothing to do with her and her […]

Separated woman (my friend) and married man wants to get married. The mother of the woman is against to their plan because shes afraid that one day he’ll just leave her daughter. According to the man, It is ok to marry until 4… according to the woman she has the right to choose a partner because she is separated. Who is right? Whats the right thing to do?

Fiqh of Marriage

21 Nov

ANSWER: A woman can’t get married without the consent of her wali, even if she is divorced or a widow. What counts is her guardian’s consent who is usually her father or elder brother.

My family thinks that as I have a dark complexion (synonymous to being ugly), I’m not likely to get married that easily so the only wise option left for me is to get a job. Only then i would be able to get any decent proposal based on my job status. But I really don’t want to opt for job and would rather stay at home pursuing my desire to study deen. This type of criticism is making me bitter.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

19 Nov

ANSWER: You must not get affected by such remarks as Allah has created everyone beautiful and its the religious commitment that makes a person shine. As for acquiring a job, this doesn’t guarantee anything and if it’s a mixed place then it’s forbidden for women to work there. Have complete faith in Allah and keep […]

I love my parents very much. The problem is that my mother does not like my wife. We have been married for almost 20 years. Unfortunately my mother is abusive towards my wife but . Still we go and have dinner with them every week. I visit myself at least twice a week and call twice a day. I also financially suport my parents. My mother still thinks I am not a dutiful son.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

19 Nov

ANSWER: What you’re doing is good, however it’s not obligatory for your wife to maintain relationship with your parents or siblings. If she’s insulted there then you must not take her along with you. You must always be humble, respectful and dutiful towards your parents no matter what but be fair with your wife as […]

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