Fiqh of Marriage

I am a surgeon before our marriage my husband agreed to let me continue my job.After some time he started nagging nd verbally abusing me askjng me to leave job. I have tried many times to leave my job as I wanted to obey him.i did istikhara nd after that Allah always helps nd makes a way out as if Allah wants me to continue it but my husband behaviour really upsets me. What to do?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 May

ANSWER: If you made this as a condition in your marriage contract, he is obliged to honor it or divorce you. But if this was not a condition, you must resign and obey him.

Does Islamic law (sharia law ) allows me to keep both wife’s in same house , but different rooms , as I can’t afford another house , but a separate room is possible. Kindly suggest me the book where I can refer this law.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Apr

ANSWER: This is only permissible if both wives agree. Each wife’s right is to have her own accommodation where no one shares it with her, with a bedroom, kitchen and a bathroom.

What are my rights towards my married sister? Her husband n she earns pretty good, n has properties n houses. Is it my right to support her financially? Who has more right on me ,my married sister or my wife? Its my wish to spend on sisters, irrespective of wt they Earn. Does my wife has right on my money?is it right my married sisters ask me to do her works?

Fiqh of Marriage

21 Apr

ANSWER: Your married sisters have no right over your money. Your wife and children come first, fulfilling their needs is your responsibility. Buy them a house and property and if you have extra, you can give your sisters.

My husband complain so much about me. I know am not perfect and make mistakes but am getting fed up with all d negative comments every day . I cant say anything back, he goes ballistic. How do I remain patient with his complain every single day? If i want to correct he thinks am arguing. Shall I just allow him to think wrongly of me and not say a single word to correct it? I don’t always corret him

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Apr

ANSWER: Just ignore his negative comments and never argue with him if you want to save your marriage. Do this for the sake of Allah and you will rewarded for it and you will have the peace of mind as he will get tired of not getting a negative response from you and will eventually […]

I have heard that while doing intercourse, there should be cover like bed sheet above the both spouses. Is it permissible to do intercourse without cover ?

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Apr

ANSWER: What you have heard is absolutely baseless. As long as people say bismillah before taking off clothes, this is sufficient as this is a protection against jinn watching them naked and there’s absolutely no problem in spouses having intimacy without covering with bedsheets or anything else.

My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim without our consent. It had been very tough but now it’s like we’ll loose our daughter when we refuse to attend the wedding and she’s taking it very personally and saying that we are cutting off ties though that’s not our intention. My whole family is practicing Muslim but it’s so confusing that I’m getting mixed advices regarding attending it

Apostasy, Fiqh of Marriage

10 Apr

ANSWER: You have already lost her when she decided to marry a Kafir! Her father must prevent this marriage. If she marries him anyway and thinks her marriage to be legit, she has left the fold of Islam and is an Apostate. People must know this to cut her off their society and to be […]

Shiekh I have a sister who converted to Islam six months ago she now see a man whom she love and want to get married to him BUT her father said no only. her mother and uncle say Yes. it’s permissible to get married without her father permission?

Fiqh of Marriage, Religions

09 Apr

ANSWER: A kafir father can’t be a guardian to his Muslim daughter. She first must repent to Allah and cut all communications with this Muslim brother and show remorse as premarital relationships are prohibited in islam. After that, her Wali in marriage would be any Muslim relative from her father’s side. If there is none, the […]

Can a Muslim man married to a polytheist perform umrah or hajj?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

07 Apr

ANSWER: He is living in zina with this woman as a muslim man can only marry a muslim woman, or a chaste Christian or a Jewish woman. He cannot marry a polytheist and he will be sinful if he did while acknowledging that such a marriage is invalid. If he believes that the marriage is […]

Sheikh, here in my community people used to have many feast festivals during maraige and after marraige like feast functions on 2 day of wedding similarly on 7th, 10th etc where(israf) lot n lot of food is served and most(tons) of the food goes waste. Is it permissible to attend these functions.

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

05 Apr

ANSWER: This is permissible providing it does not contain anything that is haram such as music, free mixing, photography of women, extravagance etc. https://youtu.be/kZpxbUxvsEo

durng 1st childbirth my mom went 2 help my wife aftr childbrth 4 few days,my wifes family are ppl who dont like my child to be close with my parents.it causd prblms nd endd n badmanner.wen my mom came to my house wife made sure child spends less time with them,nw durng 2nd child brth my parnts didn go2see to avoid problms,how2 solv prblm wen they seperate child frm grandparents?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pedagogy education and upbringing

05 Apr

ANSWER: Your wife’s family has no right to influence or dictate your personal life or your child’s ability to interact with his/her grandparents. With that being said, if your wife smothers her child or doesn’t leave the child unsupervised, this is her right as it is equally her child. You can invite your parents over and […]

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