Fiqh of Marriage

I’m going to get married to a man who is righteous (his CV indicates so and i’ve met his family and him with my mahram). We both are on the same page with having a halal wedding. What advice would you give to tackle parents who seems to want to please people rather than Allah?

Fiqh of Marriage

17 Jul

ANSWER: What do you mean by ‘to please people’? If they want music, free mixing or any haram practices at the wedding, you must put your foot down and not allow this to happen but with utmost respect, diplomacy and by never raising your voice in front of your parents.

I want to do Nikkah but my dad is late. Who can be my Wali in this situation if my uncles live very far and no smooth relationship between I and my uncles?

Fiqh of Marriage

11 Jul

ANSWER: Your wali is your paternal grandfather. If he is dead, then your eldest brother. If you don’t have brothers, your paternal uncles. If you don’t have any, then your paternal cousin.

Is there any ruling that after nikah a couple should compulsory have a physical relation to keep their nikah valid? What if the couple just had their nikah done and the bride still didn’t shift with her inlaws?

Fiqh of Marriage

10 Jul

ANSWER: This is baseless. No problem in living in her parents home until her husband can afford to take her with him.

I’hv been married for 13mnths,Alhamdulilla(Im 27yrs old,a teacher.my husband 33yrs,srvice holder).bt without my husband’s family concern.n nw when he informed his 3younger sisters(all r married) they told them not to say this to their father he will get heart attack(as he is nt agree to his son’s decision).his sisters gve him choice-either leave me or his family.nw what to do?

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jul

ANSWER: If your father (wali) had given his consent to this marriage, this is a valid marriage and his parents approval does not impact your marriage. However, it’s best for him to talk to his father about this and let him know about the marriage as he will be devastated when he comes to know […]

Sheikh is intercourse allowed for a couple during pregnancy ? A female had an abortion in her 4th month. Some say it was due to having intercourse during pregnancy as spotting was seen for 2 months of pregnancy too.

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jul

ANSWER: No problem in having intimacy during pregnancy unless the doctor forbids this due to some medical condition.

I am 39 yrs old and my husband is 46, his 2nd wife is 27. Since he married her a yr ago, i feel he lost interest in me. He says things that hurts me a lot. He doesnt speak lovingly and romance with me as he used to, and a lot of times he says i am old now. And passes comment on my body and says my hands are rough. Bcos of this i am in a constant grief. Now i feel like leaving him. Will i be sinned

Fiqh of Marriage

29 Jun

ANSWER: You must weigh the pros and cons of your decision wisely as you will be the only one who will suffer its consequences. You must not let shaytan destroy your marriage like this. So many women who opt for divorce only wish they hadn’t when they are left with no one to support them […]

If a boy proposes a girl because he is impressed by her deen,khuluq & beauty, but he himself doesnt have a decent character and a religious image in society. Should that girl say Yess to him and let him approach her parents ?? The boy agrees to improve himself in his character & deen but right now he is not very practicing. ALLAH might give him hidayah, but the girl fears to take risk for her life

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Jun

ANSWER: Of course not! She must not accept this proposal of someone who is less than her in her religious practice and she must not communicate with him at all as he’s a non mahram. She is not a guinea pig to try if you can guide him or not!

It is said that, if the husband is not happy with his wife then the wife cannot enter jannah.what if the husband is not happy with his wife because she is not bringing money or other things from her parents?

Commentary on Hadeeth, Fiqh of Marriage

18 Jun

ANSWER: This is not a valid reason for him to be unhappy with his wife therefore this does not come under this hadith.

I am unmarried 30 years of age girl. I always wanted to marry as early as possible. Now I think i am not fit for marriage & I should not try for it.when i see my friends/cousins all married I feel that is because they are better muslims & my sins are greater than them. I also feel i am not a responsible person mayb to be married so should not look any more.

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Jun

ANSWER: Everything happens with Allah’s will and this was destined to happen 50 thousand years before the creation of the heavens and the earth so you need to have complete reliance and faith in Allah and pray and hope that Allah will get you married to a practicing brother soon. You must not despair of […]

My question is that My Husband doesn’t pray on time. Even if I keep reminding him,he gets angry and we end up fighting. How do I explain it to him that it is really important to pray on time?

Fiqh of Marriage, Prayer

07 Jun

ANSWER: If he doesn’t pray at all and not even one fard though you tell him and warn him, you must not stay with him at all. If he prays on and off, keep on reminding him with diplomacy and wisdom.

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