Fiqh of Marriage

My cousin has a family.About four years ago she started to chat with a man.After some days they started chatting continuously. My sister didn’t know that the guy had feelings for her. After knowing that she wanted to stop chatting. But the guy gave her a thread to commit suicide and he tried once.He knows her husband’s home&phone number.How can she be save

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

15 Sep

ANSWER: She is sinful for betraying her husband and talking to non-mahram men behind her husband’s back! She must break off all communication with him by blocking his number and repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity for having anything to do with him in the first place while making a lot of […]

A Muslim man is having a happy married life and a loving family. However,he wants to have a second wife because he believes he can do justice to both of them as per Islamic norms.But his first wife doesn’t agree to his request. So, can he get married again keeping the second marriage secret from the first wife. The second wife and her family will be aware of his first marriage and family.

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Sep

ANSWER: This is permissible, however it’s not recommended as the man would have to lie to his first wife about his whereabouts when he’s at his second wife’s house and it’s a major sin to lie. And the problems would escalate when he has children with his second wife and more so if he dies […]

Some say that intercource after 3 months completion of pregnancy is not permissble. Is that true ?

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Sep

ANSWER: This is baseless.

I’m married for 7 yrs and live with my mother in law who is worst with me, always try to ruin my marriage. Me and husband fight bcz of her, he had hit me many times. He made me a servant and my kids obedient by hitting. I still behave well but now I want a separate house he refused, said I will not leave my mother and want me to live close to sis in law whr thr is joimt family system. Wht shd I do

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

23 Aug

ANSWER: It is your right in islam to ask for a separate accommodation. It is not allowed for him to hit you like this as this is domestic violence and most countries incriminate such an action. Consult your parents and elders and then you can come with a decision. https://www.assimalhakeem.net/my-motherinlaw-is-bing-vry-aggressive-and-vile-towards-me-im-not-allowd-to-sit-with-the-family-eat-with-the-family-n-also-cook-for-my-husband-or-myself-she-says-i-cant-eat-the-food-she-makes-whe/

There is a brother who has asked for my hand in marriage. I am considering to ask him to memorize a surah as part of my mahr or as a condition of marriage. He agreed. Am I allowed to do this? And if so do you have any suggestion of any surah. I’ve read Surah An-Noor, An-Nisa and Al-Maidah are surahs that were adviced to learn by the salaf in different occasions.

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage

13 Aug

ANSWER: Mahr should be paid in money, gold or land, plot or anything material so that if you were to opt for khulu in the future, you can compensate him by returning to him what he had given.

My mom is forcing me to get married to someone I don’t like. She’s worried that I wont get a boy in future and just because of that, it’s illogical to get married to any guy that comes across. I’m 25.But I dont like the guy she’s been showing me. How to make her understand that it’s Allahs will, when he wants I’ll get married. But forcing me into this is not the solution,when I dont like it.She tells me that i dont love her, respect her because of all this.

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Aug

ANSWER: Nobody can force you to marry against your wish. However, you must not keep rejecting good proposals of practicing brothers with correct aqeedah because you are not getting younger and I have many cases of women rejecting good proposals and waited for their prince charming and their age slipped and now they’re crying and […]

If a man is barren is it permissible for his wife to leave him because i saw a local moulvi saying that marriage with a barren man is not halal like that nikkah is not valid. Also i know that it is Allah who gives children.

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

30 Jul

ANSWER: What this so called maulvi has said is absolutely baseless and wrong. He is an ignorant and must not be listened to or learnt from. The nikah is totally valid. The choice is for the woman to make if she wants to live with this husband or not. If she wants divorce because of […]

Before my marriage my father told to my in laws that i donot quit my government job after marriage, at that time they said okey. but now they and my husband force me to leave the job. they deceived me and my family. Now what should i do? whats the islam said to me in this case?

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Jul

ANSWER: If your husband had agreed to let you work, he must fulfill this condition, providing this is a halal job and if it is not a mixed place as its not permissible for women to work in a mixed environment where they have to mix and interact with men. You have the right to […]

Sheikh my husband disrespects my parents and I many times tried to make him understand about it.what is the ruling in Islam about it and what should I do

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Jul

ANSWER: Don’t talk about your parents in front of him at all and do not let them meet each other. Go to your parents house without him and whenever he tries to bring their topic up, change the topic and talk about something else discreetly and even after this if he doesn’t stop insulting them, […]

We r searching rishta for our brother,my brother age is 22 but he is induged in some bad habbits like alcohol smoking should we tell all these thing where we r doing his rishta or not ? My mother says to me i am alnoe come with me for visiting people but i do not feel this fair and justice wth the family we will do rishta (marraige),but if we will tell them no one will marry him.what to do In ths?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

27 Jul

ANSWER: You must not be a part of this process at all and remind your mother in a respectful manner to fear Allah! Ask her how she would feel to have been married with someone who smokes and drinks alcohol that she had no clue of before marriage! Would she want her daughter to marry […]

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