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You are not allowed to speak to him as he is a non mahram to you still as the marriage contact is not finalized. 

He has no right as a fiancé or a husband even to prevent you from accepting gifts from your parents. 

This raises red flags about how he thinks or how controlling he wants to be! 

QUESTION: I am getting married soon and my parents want to gift some gold ornaments to me for my wedding. They have done this as per their own will and I didn’t force them to get me anything. But my fiance doesn’t want me to take anything from them. Can I still go ahead and accept this gift from my parents or do I listen to my fiance?

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family | May 25, 2024 4:45 am
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QUESTION: I am 21 years old and I’m looking for early marriage. However I’m still a university student, do you still recommend early marriage for this case and if yes. How can I convince my parents to get me married at a young age, knowing that I don’t work yet.
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QUESTION: I did arrange marriage. My wife’s parents were very clear about her dark complexion and average looks. I and my parents assured them we had no issue. She is very pious, good character goes above and beyond to keep me happy.also she was clear she didn’t want to go ahead if I was interested in polygamy. She is a nice girl. Now I don’t feel attracted for her looks. Should i divorce her ?