Fiqh of Marriage

ANSWER: If she did not move with you yet and you are not providing for her financially, she is not obliged to obey you as she is in her father’s house and her responsibility lies with him.

QUESTION: Shaikh i want to ask if i don’t want to get marry the person who is involved some biddah or sometime shirkiya activities so this is my extremism means i am extremist or i am right at my place because some relatives of mine said i must get marry of that person and after this i will have to insist him to leave those activities… Shaikh i am so worried as i don’t follow any biddah

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Jun

ANSWER: What your relatives are saying is not right. You must not get married to such a person as you are not a Guinea pig!

QUESTION: I don’t like my husband I don’t want to see his face or hear his voice I don’t know why is that from the first day of my marriage I didn’t let him touch me I’m sinful I know but I can’t live with that man.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Jun

ANSWER: Technically, if you are unable to live with him or fulfill his rights, you can divorce him. Realistically, this is not logical! You accepted him and agreed to marry him without anyone forcing you. After all this time wasted and money lost, you simply want to divorce him and for a silly reason such […]

QUESTION: Sheikh! Is it true that I am supposed to do ANYTHING my husband ask’s me to do as long as it doesn’t go against Allah? For example one time He asked me to kneel down because I said something he found offensive to him(I said I was going to call the security on his friend who is an Artisan, who had refused to deliver or refund)

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Jun

ANSWER: No, this is totally bogus and you don’t have to obey him in whatever he tells you as you are not his slave! He has no right to ask you yo kneel down like this! Such oppressive husbands must be stopped before they take this as norm and would make their wives’ life a […]

QUESTION: My marriage is scheduled on 29th of July (9th of Muharram). Some say that we shouldn’t have scheduled it on 9th of Muharram as it’s not a good idea and is disliked in Islam. Is this true?

Fiqh of Marriage, Innovations

05 Jun

ANSWER: Only the deviant shia say such a thing. We Muslims have no problem in having our wedding on the 9th or the 10th of that month or any other month.

QUESTION: Sheikh, If a woman earns and pays for the expenses of household, and do house chores, take care of children and her in-laws and man do nothing .doesn’t man have to do household and taking care of the children. Or it is still duty of the woman.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

05 Jun

ANSWER: Her duty is to look after her house, husband and kids. It’s not her responsibility to chip in in the expenses so she can quit the job and be home and let her husband take care of the finances.

QUESTION: Father has agreed to daughters marriage to a boy she likes but refuses to do nikkah till he has a fulltime job. In the meantime daughter is talking to ‘fiance’ on WhatsApp but has strictly been stopped from ever meeting him. Mother cant stop girl from talking in message as she doesn’t listen or father from delaying nikkah. If this drags on is there sin on mum.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

03 Jun

ANSWER: The daughter is sinful for such communications and the father must be informed to stop her or threaten her of canceling the marriage altogether if she is not willing to comply!

QUESTION: Sheikh, can a person who is looking for a bride for their son judge a girl based on the girl’s parent’s behavior?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Jun

ANSWER No! Can people judge your son by your behavior ?

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