Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Im not interacting with any female because i want to be pure and untouched for her (my future wife), if she has had some past experiences with a male and I get to know it after my death is there anyway I can divorce her on the day of judgement or in heaven (if I am allowed in heaven). And if i want to see her suffer in the afterlife how do I?

Fiqh of Marriage, Other, Paradise and Hell

22 May

ANSWER: No, you can’t! This is childish of you to think like this as Allah forgives people’s mistakes as if they had done none and on the day of judgement, all grudges and enmity will be erased and removed from people’s hearts.

QUESTION: I have feelings for a guy who doesn’t reciprocate, we dated Back then, but now we aren’t together and now My parents arranged a proposal with someone I’m not interested in. I’ve been praying to Allah since 2 years now, to bring the guy I like into my life with love and in my naseeb. Should I wait, give up, Or keep praying? As it is said DUA CAN CHANGE THE NASEEB.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

20 May

ANSWER: You must move on with your life and not allow yourself to be treated as a doormat unless you are one! Someone who is not interested in you and had moved on with his life, you should have the self respect and forget all about him and ask Allah for forgiveness over what you […]

QUESTION: How can a woman save herself from her abusive husband?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 May

ANSWER: Avoid the reasons that make him abusive or try to communicate and reason with him. If these don’t work, let her involve the men in her family who could intimidate him as men, and if this doesn’t work, she can file for khulu and ditch him as he is not a real man to […]

QUESTION: Is ORAL SEX allowed in Islam?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

15 May

ANSWER: This is not recommended as it is touching the place of impurity with the mouth or tongue which pronounces the shahada and recites the Quran.

QUESTION: My mother started wearing an abaya starting last year and my father doesnt like it. At first he just used to convince her to not wear it but now he gets really angry. Mother’s really worried about what she should do, she knows that she cant disobey Allah but she cant ignore Father either. Please advise what to do.

Fiqh of Marriage, Women clothing

14 May

ANSWER: She has the choice of either obeying Allah or obeying satan!

QUESTION: My husband wants to bring his brother from overseas to live in our house where we live with our children, which means that when my husband goes to work I will end up at home alone with my children and his brother. Please advise.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

07 May

ANSWER: This is not permissible and you must not agree to that. He can arrange for his brother to live somewhere else!

QUESTION: As a women i am obligated to obey respect and serve my parents but i am a house wife and not financially independent. How can i fulfil the needs of my parents. According to islam my husband’s money is also my money, can i serve them with his money?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

07 May

ANSWER: Your husband’s money is his money and it’s totally prohibited and a major sin to take his money and spend on anyone without his knowledge or permission!

QUESTION: Sheikh in your previous post You said a married woman would be with her husband in jannah. But In our society, many husbands are often abusive, and they don’t change. Then why would a woman stay with such a husband?

Fiqh of Marriage, Paradise and Hell

06 May

ANSWER: There won’t be any negative traits of this dunya in jannah as Allah will transform them both to be the perfect couple and everyone will be satisfied

QUESTION: My wife is forcing me to live with her children who are my step parents, but I dont want as she spends most of the time with them and I am not at all comfortable. But she says, either accept them or I will live at my parents house. What’s your suggestion in this situation?

Fiqh of Marriage

05 May

ANSWER: You should have stipulated this before signing the marriage contract! If she had told you before getting married that her kids would live with her in your house and you accepted it then you must live with it and try to cope with that. If you are not happy, you can divorce her and […]

QUESTION: Can you show me some authentic hadith or past story through which you came to conclusion that married people can hide their adultery sin from their other half? What’s the Islamic responsibility of spouses to each other?

Fiqh of Marriage, Punishments, Sins

04 May

ANSWER: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Avoid these filthy practices which Allah, the Almighty has prohibited. He who commits any of these, should conceal with Allah’s Most High Veil (i.e. should not speak about it), and should turn to Allah, the Most High in repentance, for if anyone uncovers his hidden sins (to us), […]

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