Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: I live in Belgium and when we get married we have to choose witnesses. Am I allowed to choose my mother and father as witnesses?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

26 Jul

ANSWER: No! Your father is your wali (guardian) who would give you away in marriage and he can’t be a witness and women can’t be witnesses in nikah You must choose any two muslim males as witnesses

QUESTION: Can a non-Muslim be a guardian when marrying off a girl?

Fiqh of Marriage, Religions

25 Jul

ANSWER: No.

QUESTION: Is it permissible to speak softly & beautify my voice for a potential spouse who will meet me for the first time in front of my father? I won’t use a flirtatious voice but will not speak as I usually would with a non-mahram.

Fiqh of Marriage

24 Jul

ANSWER: You should speak normally

QUESTION: Im marrying in 3 months. The girl is religious and very beautiful. I keep checking mirror and feel like Im not handsome enough. But I’m very religious who never miss salah and educated with alhamduliaah good job. May be she is looking for this rather than good looks. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 Jul

ANSWER: Most women do not look for looks rather they look for someone who has good religious character, fears Allah, and a decent job. If she accepted your proposal, you have nothing to do other than to be grateful Allah azza wa jal

QUESTION: Should a girl prove her virginity on her wedding night if the inlaws are demanding

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

19 Jul

ANSWER: Of course not!

QUESTION: I gained wt after 4th pregnancy and my husband doesnt even want to kiss me He watches pon n talks to his exes and other girls on social media And tells me tht he doesnt have feeling for me.. why dont u look at other things i do why only sxual thing matter to u… we haven’t have had s*x in 3 years not even kiss What can i do i have desires too ? I m 32 only.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Jul

ANSWER: Take care of yourself by eating healthy and exercising and lose weight to make yourself beautiful for him as he’s your husband and he has desires and needs too. Adorn yourself in front of him, always smell good & fresh whenever he’s around, wear clothes that he likes and don’t be nagging, give him […]

QUESTION: Let’s say a man decided to give his wife pocket money every so often and a few years later he decided to ask for it back (e.g. either they divorced, or it’s simply that he wants those money etc.), is the wife oblige to give back what’s left of the money?

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Jul

ANSWER: Of course not! What kind of a MAN does that?! Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said one who asks for the gifts back is like a dog who eats it’s own vomit!

QUESTION: Is it mandatory for the husband to take care of medical expenses of his wife?

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Jul

ANSWER: Of course, this is his responsibility!

QUESTION: Is it a must for the guardian of the girl to know the mahr for marriage. What if girl wants something of less value as it’s her marriage but the father wants high value expensive. How can we surpass this? Does the mahr need to have witnesses?

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage

11 Jul

ANSWER: Yes, her father (guardian) needs to know the mahr and this must be registered in the marriage contract and the witnesses must also know about it.

QUESTION: My grandpa passed away last week. I planned to get married next month, but dont know if it would be too soon. Is any period we should wait before doing something “happy” and “celebratory” after a loved ones death?

Fiqh of Marriage, Funerals

02 Jul

ANSWER: One should not mourn for one who has died for more than three days, except for a husband, four months and ten days. Therefore, you can have the wedding after 3 days but if you fear the repercussions of what people would say, 2 to 3 weeks would seem to be sufficient in sha […]

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