Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: As a women i am obligated to obey respect and serve my parents but i am a house wife and not financially independent. How can i fulfil the needs of my parents. According to islam my husband’s money is also my money, can i serve them with his money?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

07 May

ANSWER: Your husband’s money is his money and it’s totally prohibited and a major sin to take his money and spend on anyone without his knowledge or permission!

QUESTION: Sheikh in your previous post You said a married woman would be with her husband in jannah. But In our society, many husbands are often abusive, and they don’t change. Then why would a woman stay with such a husband?

Fiqh of Marriage, Paradise and Hell

06 May

ANSWER: There won’t be any negative traits of this dunya in jannah as Allah will transform them both to be the perfect couple and everyone will be satisfied

QUESTION: My wife is forcing me to live with her children who are my step parents, but I dont want as she spends most of the time with them and I am not at all comfortable. But she says, either accept them or I will live at my parents house. What’s your suggestion in this situation?

Fiqh of Marriage

05 May

ANSWER: You should have stipulated this before signing the marriage contract! If she had told you before getting married that her kids would live with her in your house and you accepted it then you must live with it and try to cope with that. If you are not happy, you can divorce her and […]

QUESTION: Can you show me some authentic hadith or past story through which you came to conclusion that married people can hide their adultery sin from their other half? What’s the Islamic responsibility of spouses to each other?

Fiqh of Marriage, Punishments, Sins

04 May

ANSWER: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Avoid these filthy practices which Allah, the Almighty has prohibited. He who commits any of these, should conceal with Allah’s Most High Veil (i.e. should not speak about it), and should turn to Allah, the Most High in repentance, for if anyone uncovers his hidden sins (to us), […]

QUESTION: Is it halal for a husband to post his wife pictures anyhow on social media?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

03 May

ANSWER: No real man would do that unless he is marketing her! Real men have jealousy!

QUESTION: My parents are pressuring me to get married, but they consistently find fault with any potential suitor. When I decline, they urge me to reconsider, but when I agree, they criticize my choice and taunt me for considering it.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

01 May

ANSWER: You can’t accuse them of gaslighting you like that! They want the best for you, otherwise they wouldn’t have insisted that you get married. However, they want you to choose someone who would be good for you. Think positively about them and try to work with them until Allah grants you a good righteous […]

QUESTION: I have 2 kids and my husband started sending me to my mother’s place whenever he has work outside or when we get sick. Even though I tell him I can handle the situation staying with in-laws he says his parents can’t look after the kids & he can’t stay stress free if he goes outside.And now he is sending me to my mother’s house without valid reason Is my husband doing right?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

29 Apr

ANSWER: This is not right as he must get you a separate home where you can live without burdening his parents or yours. Your parents got you married so that you would live in your marital house and not to pop up in their house with your children every now and then and cause them […]

QUESTION: Is it permissible for a husband to divorce his wife if she financially supports her parents that too from her own earnings? My husband divorced me over this, demanding receipts of my account. I managed my expenses independently & never asked financial support from him. Do you think I made a mistake by supporting my parents after marriage? I never used his money on them nor burdened him financially

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage

24 Apr

ANSWER: You are not sinful for not showing him your financial records as this is none of his business. You are better off without such a gold digger who is interested in your wealth. Don’t feel sad over such a person as he is not worth it. No tear should be shed on such individuals […]

QUESTION: When a man Who wanna marry a girl but have erection problem due to an operation that save his life when he was 1 month old but . How is he suppose to tell it the to girl (like in islam he is not suppose to talk directly to the girl) when even the boy’s parent and nobody khow about he’s condition? He don’t want tell it neither. What is the proper way to act?

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Apr

ANSWER: You must let it known to her father, its not permissible to deceive her and marry her without informing.

QUESTION: I want to do a nikkah with a girl with whom i have haram relationship but my sister tells my father not to marry me with that girl otherwise she’ll marry a boy which she likes but the boy she likes goes to peers and wears amulets n ol.She doesn’t let me marry she cries and pressurizes the family.I tried to make her understand but she cries loudly and says she has anxiety

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

20 Apr

ANSWER: What kind of a family do you live in? This sounds more like a soap opera with all family members indulging in affairs and haram relationships, may Allah protect us! As long as you both have repented and expressed remorse and cut all relationships and communications between the two of you and the girl […]

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