Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Can I ask intimate questions to my potential spouse for example ‘is physical touch important for you’ and if I’m allowed then where do I draw the line but if not then may ask when engaged? As it could lead to one being unhappy if one wants to touch more than the other.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

28 Aug

ANSWER: This is totally inappropriate and not permissible at all! Only perverts would ask such questions! The father of the girl would kick you out of his house, let alone give you his daughter!

QUESTION: I work office hrs. My wife stays home. i took care of the kids when i get back and cleans the house. she is lazy and seldom prays she keeps saying she is not a slave, what can i do to avoid quarrel?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

25 Aug

ANSWER: This is not normal at all and you should involve her parents in this if she doesn’t listen and behave! She is obliged to work in the house as you are obliged to work and provide for her and the kids. If she is not complying after all of that, you can divorce her […]

QUESTION: What are islamic rulings on engagement long pause for months nikkah then pause for months then rukhsati

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage

24 Aug

ANSWER: This is not from the sunnah as the sunnah it to make it as soon as possible unless there is a legitimate reason and all parties agree on it.

QUESTION: What can a woman do, when she wants to stipulate the condition of living in a separate accommodation, but the culture and society doesn’t accept it? especially her own parents as well?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Aug

ANSWER: If she gets a proposal like that then she should accept it or else make dua to Allah to send a husband who would provide her with a separate accommodation If there is no way such a proposal comes and her age is passing then she should look at the pros and cons of […]

QUESTION: Can my husband command me to not look at the faces of daees and Islamic scholars out of jealousy? Do I have to obey him, or can I just not show him that I am?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Aug

ANSWER: No, he has no right in doing so and you are not obligated to obey him. You can also do it without showing him.

QUESTION: Is it ok to marry a girl who follow tablighi jamat?

Fiqh of Marriage, Sects

09 Aug

ANSWER: What counts is her aqeedah which most likely is following the deobandi aqeedah which is corrupted and not following Ahlu sunnah wal Jama’ah Therefore, one must not marry from them.

QUESTION: Would a marriage still be valid if a husband and wife sleep in separate rooms due to not getting along for numerous years. The wife gave permission for him to remarry but he refuses and wants to be a father for his 5 grown children. They have agreed to be civil and not divorce for children’s sake. Is this allowed?

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Aug

ANSWER: Yes.

QUESTION: I live in Singapore. Housing is EXPENSIVE. Govt. forcefully takes 20% of salary for housing/medical. MAJORITY of ppl can’t afford to buy/rent with their salary. Is it feasible for all these ppl to remain unmarried to avoid mortgage? This is a real issue we face. I am not asking for an easy way out, but a solution for Muslims living here.

Fiqh of Marriage, Psychological and Social Problems

04 Aug

ANSWER: They must marry when they can afford it or migrate to another country.

QUESTION: Mu‘ādh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Whenever a woman harms her husband in this world, his wife from the Houris of Paradise says: ‘Do not harm him! May Allah destroy you! He is but a passing guest with you, and he will soon leave you to join us.'” Is this an authentic hadith?

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Aug

ANSWER: Yes

QUESTION: I’m in England and My nikah was done online but rukhasti is not done yet and wife is living with her parents in Pakistan. I will be applying for her visa. Do I need to pay for her visa or her parents will pay as she is living with them?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Jul

ANSWER: What kind of a question is this? No real man would ask about such trivial financial issues unless he has a problem of being stingy or a miser! This woman is better off calling such a marriage off as her life would be hell with him! The husband is obliged to pay for the […]

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