Kind Treatment of Spouses

QUESTION: My husband abandoned me and stopped talking to me because my Dad didn’t answered his two messages on New year and didn’t called his dad on one eid. He says that you also have to suffer and get ignored like your father did. I tried calling him and asked him what is my mistake he says you guys don’t value your son in law. Does Islam give such privilege to a man? What should I as a wife & daughter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

07 Jan

ANSWER: Your husband is an ignorant imbecile and you must be patient and make dua for Allah to guide him Don’t respond to his accusations and do not defend yourself or your family as this won’t have any benefit as he is not looking for fairness or a way to solve a problem as he […]

QUESTION: I just want to know if I forgive my going to be spouse’s past where she fell in haraam doings and accept her.. Will I be rewarded from Allah for it? I’m afraid to break her heart as I feel her honesty and love for me? Note: she said all her past from her own without me asking it.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, you will be rewarded for that. She was wrong in telling you what Allah has concealed. However, you must never bring this topic up again if you want Allah to reward you.

QUESTION: Are men commanded or just recommended to treat their wives well?

Character and Morals, Kind Treatment of Spouses

12 Dec

ANSWER: They are commanded to treat them well.

QUESTION: This summer my dad got me in an arranged marriage and didn’t ask for my permission and I’m not happy with this marriage in fact I like someone else and he’s on deen I haven’t spoken to him before as I want to do it the halal way but now that I’m marred off without my convent can I still pray for his to make the other man my Naseeb?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Nov

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited and decent married women don’t think about other men, lest alone pray to be with them! You had a chance to say no to the marriage but you chose not to so you must give your 100% to this marriage and make your husband happy if you want Allah to […]

QUESTION: Is it important for men also to ask his wife before going anywhere?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Nov

ANSWER: No. He is not obliged to ask for her permission or to even tell her. However, it is part of being a good husband to tell her or inform her so that her mind would be at ease.

QUESTION: I got married without liking the girl, for the sake of my parents. Its been more than 7 months but i still can’t have the feelings I should have for her. Im just married to her mostly for the sake of my parents, society and i fear that if i leave her, her life would be ruined. Should i still be with her if i dont find peace and comfort with her?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

07 Nov

ANSWER: You had already ruined her life when you married her in the first place without being able to act like a man and refuse. You must look at the good attributes in her and appreciate her for who she is instead of being focused on leaving her and justifying this with lame excuses!

QUESTION: Can someone curse her husband for doing injustice to his wife? Such as divorcing her because she doesn’t look pretty? Although He saw her before marriage & very much interested about her. Just after 2 days of marriage he told her she’s not pretty & he doesn’t want to be in this marriage. The girl is totally devastated & broken. Doesn’t know what to do . This man just ruined her life & her family.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

31 Oct

ANSWER: She shouldn’t weep over such an ignorant imbecile, rather she should be grateful that Allah has saved her from continuing to be married to him and that she had separated from him before having any children.

QUESTION: What is the ruling of husband sharing to his parents/family regarding personal matter of his wife such as health problems, daily routines and places we go?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

25 Sep

ANSWER: This is not permissible if the wife is not happy with that or agreeing to it.

QUESTION: My husband doesn’t do any job and want me to work outside and do household chores and doesn’t even want kid because of the responsibility of it …meanwhile he is loving towards me but put responsibility of his mother on me also.. should I keep patience and continue my marriage and pray from Allah for better days or leave him right now as this is effecting me mentally all the time?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Sep

ANSWER: You are not obliged to work outside the house or even take care of his mother. Providing for the house is the man’s responsibility, not the other way around. Be firm and adamant about staying at home and make him man up. You must weigh the pros and cons of leaving him wisely and […]

QUESTION: In sub-continent mostly people say that the husband is a virtual god in urdu (مجازی خدا) is it right to say this.

Innovations, Kind Treatment of Spouses

08 Sep

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited!

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