Kind Treatment of Spouses

QUESTION: If the husband doesn’t pray Fajr can the wife forsake him in the bed ? Give me suggestions too

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer

27 Nov

ANSWER: No, this is not permissible! Not praying fajr is a major sin unless he is unable to wake up. Forsaking him in bed and depriving him from his rights is a greater major sin that all the angels will curse her all night long until fajr time and this is every night!

QUESTION: If in a married couple one of the spouse goes to hell to expiate his/her sins and then goes to Jannah, will the couple still be married in Jannah or will they have different spouses? If one goes to hell, can the spouse intercede in his/her favor to avoid hell and be married in Jannah?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Paradise and Hell

24 Nov

ANSWER: Yes, they will be together after he does his time in hell She can intercede for him and it is up to Allah to accept that.

QUESTION: Due to misunderstandings, my husband accused me for infidelity without solid evidence of me having an affair. He insulted me openly. Still to save my marriage, me and my parents asked for forgiveness. I offered to agree to all his conditions as i was loyal yet he wants to divorce me without hearing any explanation. He didnt talk to me in private. He only talks with his mother. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

05 Oct

ANSWER: This is your choice If you wish to remain a doormat for the rest of your life, you can keep on trying

QUESTION: I have a family (mother, wife, and a young daughter), and my salary is moderate. I often struggle financially by month’s end. I give sadaqa monthly but feel it’s too little. Is there a recommended amount for sadaqa?

Charity, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Sep

ANSWER: No. Providing for your family is a sadaqa by itself.

QUESTION: I previously asked if a wife can do only basic house duties, and you responded that if the husband is okay with it and they can hire a maid then its fine. but, does the wife have to pay for the maid? The wife doesn’t have the funds, and the husband is willing to cover the cost.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Sep

ANSWER: No problem in husband paying for the maid at all!

QUESTION: My wife likes to stay awake during the night and this upsets me. She stays awake till 2 am everyday and she says she reads religious knowledge but also browses through her phone. She also says she can’t sleep early but I feel she doesn’t try. Is she sinful for doing something I don’t like because I told her many times to try to sleep early .she sleeps late, wakes up prays

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

09 Sep

ANSWER: If she wakes up and prays her fajr on time and does her other daily chores and she is not messing up with your right, there is no need to be upset with her.

QUESTION: I work office hrs. My wife stays home. i took care of the kids when i get back and cleans the house. she is lazy and seldom prays she keeps saying she is not a slave, what can i do to avoid quarrel?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

25 Aug

ANSWER: This is not normal at all and you should involve her parents in this if she doesn’t listen and behave! She is obliged to work in the house as you are obliged to work and provide for her and the kids. If she is not complying after all of that, you can divorce her […]

QUESTION: What can a woman do, when she wants to stipulate the condition of living in a separate accommodation, but the culture and society doesn’t accept it? especially her own parents as well?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Aug

ANSWER: If she gets a proposal like that then she should accept it or else make dua to Allah to send a husband who would provide her with a separate accommodation If there is no way such a proposal comes and her age is passing then she should look at the pros and cons of […]

QUESTION: Can my husband command me to not look at the faces of daees and Islamic scholars out of jealousy? Do I have to obey him, or can I just not show him that I am?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Aug

ANSWER: No, he has no right in doing so and you are not obligated to obey him. You can also do it without showing him.

QUESTION: I’m in England and My nikah was done online but rukhasti is not done yet and wife is living with her parents in Pakistan. I will be applying for her visa. Do I need to pay for her visa or her parents will pay as she is living with them?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Jul

ANSWER: What kind of a question is this? No real man would ask about such trivial financial issues unless he has a problem of being stingy or a miser! This woman is better off calling such a marriage off as her life would be hell with him! The husband is obliged to pay for the […]

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