ANSWER: What he’s saying is not true! You are obliged to obey him and to serve him and not serve other people! This is not slavery!
Read moreANSWER: Of course not! This is what an ideal couple work and aim for.
Read moreANSWER: Let him go through his fit and keep your distance if you did not do anything wrong to him until he comes around on his own time. When he is in a good mood, you can try to discuss his behaviour with him and to ask him whether this was the way of the […]
Read moreANSWER: Technically, if you are unable to love him or fulfill his rights, you can divorce him. Realistically, this is not logical! You accepted him and agreed to marry him without anyone forcing you. After all this time wasted and money lost, you simply want to divorce him and for a silly reason such as […]
Read moreANSWER: You have all the right in Islam to ask your husband for a separate accommodation. Your in laws have no say or right in this. He must fear Allah and give you your rights. However, you must be smart in dealing with this sensitive issue. Do not nag your husband about this, rather be […]
Read moreANSWER: Your husband has to man up and stand up against them whenever anyone brings about the topic of dowry from you. You simply do not reply to any of their comments. Abusive people want only to depress you and to sadden you and to get a negative reaction or response from you that would […]
Read moreANSWER: If he doesn’t earn enough and you are working, why would you burden him by asking him to give you something? He is poor and unable to make ends meet! You want him to stop sending any money to his parents and family and give you an allowance while he sees you working and […]
Read moreANSWER: She is a human being and has all the right to be angry. However, what makes her sinful is not her anger but rather what she does as a result of such anger.
Read moreANSWER: You must put your foot down and totally prohibit anyone checking your bedsheet at all, this is absolutely degrading and insulting.
Read moreANSWER: She shouldn’t be free mixing with men who are non mahram. If she is not living with them in a joint family system, she can demand from her husband a separate home as this is her right in Islam. If she is already living separately, she is not obliged to ever meet them. This […]
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